Kela May - a chinozivikanwa American kwepfungwa uye psychotherapist

Mumwe nomumwe wedu ane pfungwa yake nezvokuvapo vanhu. Munhu achitenda hwakafanorongwa, mune chokwadi chokuti zvose muupenyu hwedu zvakafanorongwa naMwari, uye isu tiri sezvo puppets, anosara akateerera kutevera shinda wematambudziko. Vamwe vanodavira kuti munhu anosarudza kurarama, sei kuva, iyo nzira kuenda kupi uye sei ... "Sezvo mugumo hazvigoni kungotariswa, hatigoni chete vadzime uye kutsiva chimwe. Asi tinogona kusarudza sei isu sei magumo edu, uchishandisa unyanzvi watakaitirwa "- saka vakati kwepfungwa huru kela May. Ichokwadi, kwete anongoitika mukana, ipapo mugumo iri, asi chaizvoizvo munhu haana kusarudza? Mumakore okupedzisira oupenyu hwake yakatsaurirwa kuna mei kuti nyaya iyi.

tsananguro

Full zita - kela Riz Mey. Date pamusoro Birth: April 21, 1909 Date Rufu - 22 October 1994 Place aberekwa - guta Ada, Ohio. Place Rufu - City Tiburon, California.
Vabereki: mai - Earl okuremekedza mei baba - Meti Bouton May. Family: kela May akaberekerwa mumhuri asi yakakura, iine vana 7 (hanzvadzi wedangwe vamwe 6 hama, kela May chainyanya mukuru vavo). Nzvimbo dzokugara: achangoberekwa wemwana mhuri yakatamira kune rimwe guta riri Michigan, Marin City, apo vose pauduku wepfungwa. Yerufu: mazhinji chirwere.

mhuri wepfungwa kela May akanga asiri sezvo zvakanaka sezvo unogona kufungidzira. Amai nababa vaiva vanhu vasina kudzidza avo vakatsamwa kuti vana vavo vave noruzivo. Kuita nevana kare zvose amai nababa, saka vana vakanga mafaro uye kukudziridza pachavo.

Nokukurumidza, vabereki vasingagoni kugara pamwe, uye kuti nyaya kurambana. Zvichida ichi chaiva wokutanga riwedzere kune basa wepfungwa. Saka, mune imwe mhuri mhepo yakanga isiri zvakanakisisa, mukomana kakawanda pamba, uye kuchikoro, kugara makanyarara, voga zvisikwa. Ikoko ainzwa vakadzikama uye kufara.
Kuwedzera kuonana zvakasikwa, wepfungwa pazera duku akatanga kufarira mabhuku noupfu Arts, kuti mune ramangwana vaimuperekedza kwoupenyu hwake.

Kela May Kukoreji, asi nokukurumidza akadzingwa nokuti akatsauka uye inopandukira hunhu. Asi iye ndanyoresa pana Oberlin College uye zvinobudirira akaipedza.

Kutanga upenyu vakura

Ndapedza kubva kukoreji, kela May akaenda Greece uye akatanga kudzidzisa ikoko chizvarwa Chirungu pachikoro yemo.
Panguva iyoyo wepfungwa kuwana nzvimbo itsva, achipfuura mumaguta dzakanaka Europe. Iye akaratidza tsika neimwe nyika, kudzamisa kunzwisisa pachavo uye wapasi munhu. Kuziva iye uye mishonga, kureva, chiremba zvepfungwa, kureva, sei vanhu kurarama nourwere hwavo uye kana anogona zvimwe kukanganisa upenyu hwake ramangwana.

Kunzwisisa basa ravo muupenyu

In ayo makore 30, kela May akanga akatarisana nechirwere chakaipisisa - tibhii. Mumazuva iwayo kwaiva chirwere chisingarapiki. Akaenda pachipatara pacho, apo akanga ruzivo, pokuziva rava kusvika rufu. Akatanga kuona kuti mamiriro ezvinhu munhu hwomuviri zvakabatana chaizvo wayo mupfungwa zvinoriumba. Zvepasi varwere vakanga vari chete pachipatara pacho, kela May kwakaratidza kuti vaya varega kurwa upenyu hwake, kufa pamberi, uye vaya vaitsvaka kurarama kakawanda akapora. Panguva iyoyo akaona kuti pane mugumo, kuti chirwere, asi kubvuma kana kurwisa - iri mhinduro kuti zvinoda munhu pachake. Kela May akanyora, "Munhu ari kutsvaka pachake," apo akaedza kunzwisisa pachake, muupenyu hwake uye akabatsira vanhu vakamupoteredza.

The dambudziko chikuru vanhu - aramu

Kela May akatanga kunyora mabhuku, kuziva pachako uye nevamwe. Akapedza makore kudzidza mabasa Classics huru, dzakadai Freud uye Kierkegaard.
Somugumisiro makore ake akawanda tsvakurudzo kwepfungwa ndakaziva kuti munhu anogona kukunda zvose: chirwere, matambudziko, matambudziko uye kunyange rufu muna chiitiko kuti anogona kukunda kunzwa mwoyo uye kutya mupfungwa dzako. Uye nokuda kwaizvozvo, mumwe nomumwe wedu anofanira kuita kuzvidzora ruzivo.

Occupational Psychology

Kuziva kuti nguva, dambudziko vanhu - ndiwo kutya zvisingazivikanwi uye kugara kufunganya pachavo vavo remangwana, kela May akanyora pasi pfungwa dzake panyaya iyi chinyorwa chake, yakabudiswa muna 1950 pasi zita "The kukosha aramu." Zvaiva ake guru bhuku rokutanga, pashure izvo kwepfungwa zvakatonyanya akatanga kunyura kupinda kuzvicheka-zvakawanikwa, ukama hwenyika uye wemunhu,
unhu.
Izvi ndozvakaita kuti pave mabhuku ayo, chinyorwa zvemabhuku uye vatungamiriri kuti kudzidza woga. rubatsiro Psychological yakapiwa wepfungwa, akakwanisa kudzorera yakawanda vanhu kuti upenyu hunofadza. The yakakurumbira bhuku:
1. "The pfungwa mwoyo."
2. "Kuwanikwa roupenyu."
3. "Rudo uye Freedom".

Homecoming

Pashure pemakore anoverengeka kela May ndokudzokera US, apo iye akanyora bhuku rake rokutanga uye uchiri akanakisisa zvepfungwa (the "Matungamirire mupfungwa mazano"). Panguva iyoyowo, ari kudzidza panguva pachikoro uye kuva mupristi. Hapana muupenyu netsaona, kirasi yose, zvose zvinoitwa uye ose sarudzo rinotarisirwa kuunza murume kudzokera apo akanga asvika foregone mhedziso, asi simba nechido uye kuzvidzora munhu anogona kuchinja remangwana ravo. Vanhu vazhinji vakaedza kuwana imwe kugadzwa hwepedyo kwepfungwa, pashure pokuverenga bhuku "Counseling". Kela May akanga achiedza kuwana mhinduro, kuzivisa chokwadi vose vakaenda kwaari rubatsiro.

Bestseller munhoroondo kwepfungwa dzevanhu

Zano akaenda pakuzvinyengera ruzivo (kela May). "Rudo uye Rusununguko" akava kupfuura rakabudiswa uye verenga bhuku kela May. Iye akabuda muna 1969. Papera Just gore akanga paakavapa Mubayiro pamusoro Ralph Waldo Emerson. Mubhuku rino, pane kuongorora zvakasikwa zvinoumba ari munhu.
Zviri zvakananga kuzvidzora rudo, zvose tichigara, uye kuda, kukwanisa kusarudza uye kutevera nzira akasarudzwa. Munyori rinotaura kuti vakwanise kuwedzera ayo mapazi ose hwomutambarakede upenyu, izvi zviviri zvinodiwa zvinofanira batanidza kupinda chimwe. Chete nenzira yakanaka coexistence rudo uye kuda murume anogona reinvent pachako uye vasvike itsva nguva youpenyu.

Kunyatsogona kwepfungwa kudzidzisa

In zvose ake upenyu kela May, mukusiyana nedzimwe vanachiremba, yaakasimbisa chikoro chake. Aidavira kuti chete kutikanganisa kubva kukosha chokuita nokudzidzisa. Aiona zvaainyanya basa uye kuti tive nechokwadi chokuti vanhu vanonzwa vakasununguka. Izvi ndizvo chaizvo nheyo upenyu hunofadza, kunzwa vakasununguka kubva zvose rusaruro, kutya, kusava nechokwadi uye kufunganya. Wagumisa chokwadi zvose, vanotenda maari uye "Ini" ake murume anokwanisa kukurira kunyange rufu. Unyanzvi ekurairidzwa kwakabatsira kwepfungwa kuva mutungamiriri vose vaiuya kwaari. Akati kuti anogona kubatsira munhu kusarudza pakati kuva anoshungurudzwa kuramba zvakasimba vachitevera njodzi, kana kutora iwe nzira mumaoko avo.

mhedziso

Kela May - wepfungwa huru, uyo akakwanisa kuziva pachavo uye kwavo basa munyika. Akakwanisa kubatsira, uye vachiri kubatsira vanhu kuburikidza nemabhuku avo kusarudza rusununguko,
rudo, upenyu, zvarinoreva, nerunyararo uye ushingi.
Kuti vavape mupfungwa rutsigiro akabatsira kumunhu excretion yavo dambudziko. With kukwanisa kubatsira vanhu kela May airarama refu uye kufara kwavo nenzira, upenyu.