Izvo zvinoreva izwi rokuti "flatter", zvinyorwa uye mienzaniso yekushandiswa

Kureva chimwe chinhu chinobvumira vanhu kuti vasatange hondo yevose kurwisana nevose. Fungidzira kana tikatanga kutaura chokwadi kuvanhu vose? Kubva kuhukama hwedu kwaizoramba zvakashata. Nokudaro, usanonoka pane imwe nguva pamusoro pezvimwe zvinyorwa zvechokwadi. Nei izvi zvose? Kune chokwadi chokuti munharaunda yekucherechedza zvakadzama zvinoreva izwi rokuti "flatter", tichaongorora zvakare mazwi ayo.

Meaning

Ichokwadi, vazhinji vedu takashandirwa kuve nekunyomba kwakaipa. Asi duramanzwi rinoti mune zvatinotarisira isu hatisi kunyatsokodzera. Nemhaka yokuti chiito chakaumbwa kubva pamubito chine zvinoreva zviviri:

1. Tora munhu, uite kuti aite zvinyorwa zvenhema, kutsvaka zvinangwa zvake. Vanhu vakapfuma kana vane simba vanoziva kuti chii. Kunyange zvakadaro zvinogoneka kuyeuka fable isingakanganwiki yeIvan Andreevich Krylov "The Crow and the Fox", uye vose vachamuka panzvimbo.
2. Kuita rumbidzo dzechokwadi, kuedza kutsigira munhu. Kuti ave nekunzwa kupi zvako. "Chigamba icho murume wacho aipiwa mune ino shanduro chaifadza pasina."

Sezvaunogona kuona, zvinorehwa neshoko rokuti "flatter" hazvigoni kuzivikanwa zvisina kufanira sezvakanaka kana zvakaipa. Zvose zvinoenderana nechinangwa chemashoko uye pfungwa umo mukurukuri anoisa kukosha mukurumbidza. Ko shoko rokuti "flatter" rinorevei, takakurukura, asi iwe ungaritsiva sei?

Synonyms

Mushure mokunge mutengo warambidza zvishoma pasina kurwisana, zvakakosha kubhadhara mazwi-kushandura uye mazwi-kusanganiswa-mifananidzo. Mavari, nerufaro, hapana kushaikwa:

• Lysoblyudstvovat;
• Cringe;
• Embellish reality;
• Kunyengera;
• Nhema;
• Kutuka mweya;
• Kusiyana nemamiriro chaiwo emamiriro ezvinhu;
• Sangano;
• Kurumbidza;
• Cheer up.

Vanhu vazhinji vanofunga kuti mazwi ekubata kumeso anotaurwa kwavari haasi kubva pamwoyo wakachena. Asi shure kwezvose, tinowanzodikanwa kutsigirwa nehama, shamwari, vashandi pamwe chete. Izvo zvinoreva izwi rokuti "flatter" rakanaka here? Zvechokwadi. Fungidzira shamwari inoratidza chimwe chinhu, somuenzaniso, mufananidzo. Yakanyorwa zvakashata, neshoko, daub. Iko shamwari chaiye yekuudza chokwadi munyaya iyi? Mune mhaka ipi zvayo, kunze kwekuti iye aida kubvisa unyanzvi husingazivikanwi. Ichokwadi, Van Gogh zvakare akatanga kurumbidza kwete pakarepo. Munhu akanaka, ane mutsa acharumbidza chimiro chekusika, kamwe kamwe chimwe chinhu chichabuda mazviri. Nokudaro, kubata kumeso kunokwanisika zvachose kune chinhu chakanaka, chinhu chikuru - usatorwa.

Mutsara wakanaka pakati pe "zvakanaka" uye "zvakaipa" kunyengera

Hungu, kubata kumeso kunogona kuva zvose injini yekufambira mberi, uye chimwe chinhu mukutaridzika kweunhu. Somuenzaniso, mwana anodzidza kufamba, uye iwe unomurumbidza chete nekuda kwekuedza, kunyange pakutanga iye anowira pamatanho ose. Izvo zvakare neshamwari neshamwari vanoita chimwe chinhu kwete zvikuru, asi munhu wose ari kupenya kubva mukati, sezvavanonyatsofarira nebasa ravo. Muchiitiko ichi, hongu, hazvidi kurova maoko, kana pasina kuipa kune vamwe varipoteredza. Ko shoko rokuti "flatter" rinorevei munyaya iyi? Iyo inopisa pasi kune rubatsiro, kunyange iyo isingabatsiri, asi mabhizimisi anofadza ehama.

Uye zvakasiyana zvachose zvakakosha kuita kana munhu achiedza "kusungira bhiza rakafa", sezvavanotaura nezvebhizimisi risina tariro. Semuenzaniso, mukomana haana kukwanisa kupora, asi anoshandisa mari yakawanda pamhando dzakasiyana-siyana, makirasi mashekeri. Asi hapana chikonzero. Muchidimbu, mifananidzo yekunyorera yaiva kwaari pfungwa yekugadzirisa. Inosimudza shamwari neshamwari, inotora mari yakawanda ye "kutengesa zvidzidzo zvekare mune ramangwana" uye, hongu, hairegi. Mhando iyi yemafungiro zviri nani kusatsigira. Zvisinei, kana mumwe munhu akamuratidza kuti akangwarira, kuti haana tarenda, kuti ari kutarisira pachako pasina, saka mangwana Shishkin kana Magritte anogona kugumburwa kune munhu akanaka.

Nokudaro, zvakakosha kutaura pamusoro pezvinhu zvakadaro nekuchenjerera uye kwete nechakaipa. Asi zvakakosha kuita izvi, kunze kwekuti kuwedzera kufadza kune whims kunogona kuuraya kwete chete kweguta, asi nokuda kwehupenyu hwomutakuri wetarenda yemano. Asi ngatirege kutaura pamusoro pezvinhu zvinosuruvarisa. Takaongorora zvinorehwa neshoko rokuti "flatter" mumashoko ose uye rakapa chidzidzo nemifananidzo yakajeka.