Kwidza nyaya "iwe" pane mitemo kutaura nokuzvibata

Features unonyanyoitwa munhu pakutaura kwake uye rakanyorwa mashoko kune vamwe munzira dzakawanda munguva mukuru tsika munhu. Vari pedyo nevanhu mufananidzo kuti anosika mumaziso nevamwe, uye nokudaro kukanganisa mafungiro avo kwaari. Saka, chimwe chezvinhu zvinokosha nyaya ndiyo kukwanisa zvakanaka zvisazitasingwi "iwe" uye "imi" riri kutaura interlocutors siyana, uye mukugadzirwa tsamba uye nemamwe magwaro.

Rokutanga "Register" Mashoko noruremekedzo uye zvirevo

Zvinozivikanwa kuti muRussia yokutanga nguva netsika siyana kero dzakatangwa kubva mune mhando bhuku kuti akazviratidza muna 1717. Bhuku rino, muunganidzwa yakaitika pamwe pauzima Kupinda raPetro I, akanzi "Youth vakavimbika girazi, kana zvairatidza kuti tsika enyika" uye aida zvikurukuru vaduku vokuRussia.

Around iyoyi, mambo enforcers iri European muchimiro mufambiro, patange kushandiswa kukumbira "iwe" vakakwereta kubva mitauro yokumwe. Mumazuva ekare, muzvizhinji kupindamo chete kana munhu, kana vaida kupa mashoko rinokosha zvaanoreva. By "iwe," sezvo kuti aireva kuti munhu oga ndewe zhinji. kurapwa kwakadaro akagumisa rinokosha wokuremekedza.

Muna 1722 Peter Ndaiva "Table vezvinzvimbo» ─ gwaro zvaraireva chienderane vemauto, vanhuwo zvavo uye dare pokutanga, akaparadzanisa akavaisa makirasi 14. Mariri, pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, vakakurukura kugadzirisa kuti musoro chinzvimbo. The mhando dzakasiyana uye zvaitsamira nechinzvimbo wayo yemakambani manera, asi nguva dzose zvaida kurapwa muzvizhinji, akadai sokuti "Changamire Your" kana "Grace Your."

"Chaaipomerwa noruremekedzo"

Zvinofadza kuona kuti saka zvaizivikanwa kwatiri nhasi kukumbira "iwe" midzi mumutauro wokuRussia, nokukurira kurwisa, dzimwe nguva zvinobva vamiririri kupfuura mberi yeChina National intelligentsia. Kuti uone ichi, chete kuvhura tsananguro duramazwi V. I. Dalya, nokubuda pakati pezana XIX remakore. Mariri imwe Russian munyori kunoshamisa uye weduramanzwi inechirevo zvinokufadza "iwe" somunhu isiriyo chimiro wetsika.

Uyezve, mune imwe nyaya ake anoratidza kutsoropodza vaya vadzidzisi vanofunga zvakakodzera uye kunyange zvakakodzera kutaura kuvadzidzi vake, "iwe" pane kuti kuvamanikidza kuti batidza "iwe" amene. Vakadaro chinzvimbo kunogona chete kukonzera kunyemwerera, asi hafu remakore adarika, iye akawana vatsigiri vakawanda.

Politics, vambotiza hwemazuva Mutauro

Nguva pfupi pashure February Revolution, chirevo pamusoro dikidiki Government vakanga aparadza uye neboka pamisara. Aenda kare yakasimbiswa mishonga kuti vamiririri vavo. Pamwe navo vawira zvisingachashandiswi uye aimbova shoko "changamire" uye "amai", conceding mushure October Revolution nzvimbo kazhinji kugamuchirwa munguva Soviet, "mugari", "mugari" kana sexless ─ "komuredhi", yakanyorerwa varume nevakadzi. Zvisinei, zvinokufadza "iwe" akararama, achiva mumwe inokosha mitemo ano kutaura nokuzvibata.

Muzvimwe zvinoitika kushandisa, achitaura interlocutor, achiti "iwe"?

Maererano kazhinji akagamuchira dzemunharaunda mufambiro, izvi zvinoitwa kunyanya pane vanhu: kubasa, masangano dzevoruzhinji. Panguva iyoyowo kutaura "iwe" zvakakodzera mumamiriro anotevera:

1. Kana nhaurirano iri zvinoitiswa kujairika kana kunyange mweni.
2. Kana mativi vanoziva, asi ine mu pamutemo ukama, akadai basa nevamwe, vadzidzi nevadzidzisi, pasi uye Vakuru.
3. Muzviitiko kana uine kutendeukira kutarisana mukuru zera kana kuti tisafunge zveutungamiri.
4. Pakupedzisira, navabati rutsigiro mudonzvo zvitoro, maresitorendi, hotels nezvimwe establishments ichi mhando.

Muchiitiko chino, nguva dzose unofanira kurangarira kuti zvinokufadza "iwe" kune mutorwa ndiye ndozvakajairwa zvakatangwa dzinokosha mitemo yokuzvibata.

Mune zvimwe zviitiko, chikumbiro vangava "iwe"?

Mumamwe, kunyanya kurongwa, mitemo kutaura nokuzvibata kubvumira kukumbira "iwe." Zvakakodzera kubasa kana kutaura navo kunze kuri kuitwa kuita, uye kumba kana pazororo. chimiro kwakadaro yokurapa angava kuratidza ushamwari pakati interlocutors, uye kusimbisa zvisina hunhu kurukurirano. Zvisinei, kuti tisabatwa kuva vachinyara mamiriro ezvinhu, kunofanira kurangarirwa kuti kutaura "iwe" riri bvumidzwa chete:

1. Close navo ari munhu aifanira kukurira kare, uye ukama hunoita kuti kuregeredza mamwe inoomesera pamutemo zvinodiwa kubata.
2. Vakuru kutaura nevana kana kuyaruka.
3. Zvisina kurongwa kumuduku kana vakaenzana vakuru vakuru.
4. In kukurukura pakati pavana uye vabereki tsika ano rinobvumira kuti vashandise "iwe" sezvo mumwe uye imwe pati.
5. Vechidiki vana kutaurirana pakati vezera, kunyange kana vasina kujairana mumwe.

Maererano nemitemo vakawanda vaibvuma kutaura nokuzvibata, vaiona zvachose zvisingagamuchirwi kurapwa "iwe" muduku vanhu (zvose zera uye munzanga kana pamutemo nzvimbo) kune mukuru. Uyezve, chiratidzo tsika dzakaipa uye kunaka inzira achiti "iwe" kune vashandi pakati mudonzvo nemasangano.

The nuances kukurukura mamaneja kuti mudonzvo wavo

Chinokosha mitemo yokuzvibata munzanga ndiko waidzora kushandisa "iwe" uye "imi" iri vaishandisa kupfuura omurume. Pasina kuenda mhiri miganhu zvakakodzera, maneja anogona kutaura kuti mushandi "iwe" chete kana ane mukana vanoteerera nenzira yakafanana. Izvi zvinowanzoda kunoitika apo akagadzwa kurongwa ukama pakati pavo. Zvikasadaro, panotaurwa kuti pasi "iwe" yaizova hunonyadzisa kutyorwa kutaura nokuzvibata.

Pokugadzwa kurongwa siyana kero

The vakawanda vaibvuma undere mitemo anopa yezwi pakati vadyidzani ine "iwe" pane kuti "iwe." Zvisinei, zvinokwanisika chete idzodzo zviitiko apo pakati pavo akaratidza zvakakodzera mhando ukama kuti unobvumira kuti kutsiva ari kukurukura pamutemo kuteterera kuti ushamwari. Kazhinji, izvi zvinoratidza kuti pre-aivapo kwazvakarerekera reserved mafungiro mumwe akapa nzira imwe convergence.

Zvinofanira kucherechedzwa kuti kazhinji akagamuchira dzemunharaunda mufambiro zvinopa imwe nguva zvakakodzera kuti kufambidzana wakadzikama panguva kukumbira "iwe" akapa nzira asununguke uye ushamwari "iwe". Its chinguva kunobva zvachose pachavo unhu interlocutors uye kwokunze ezvinhu.

Zvakakosha kuti tisingazvioni anopamba nguva iri iyo zvichiita kupa shamwari iri kukurukura rambai "iwe", sezvo iri nyaya kukanganisa kukundikana kwayo vaizongoguma simuka netsa mamiriro ezvinhu. Naizvozvo, kushandura kurapwa Zvakakodzera kunzwa nokuchiva shamwari yake. Yaitsigira divi iroro Kuchinja panhaurirano pamusoro "iwe" riri zvachose zvisingagamuchirwi, nokuti vaizongoguma aionekwa kusaremekedza kuna nemudiwa, uye kuratidzirwa kuregeredza payo.

Kana kurongwa "iwe" kunotsiviwa zvikuru zvakaoma "iwe"

Speech nokuzvibata mutauro wokuRussia uyewo inopa achichinja kubva ushamwari "iwe" neyebhizimisi "iwe", asi muupenyu hwezuva nezuva zvinoitika Kazhinji. Kunyange zvakadaro, zvinoita mune zviitiko apo ukama pakati interlocutors kunge akarwarisa atora evasingatombonamati yakarongwa hunhu. Izvi zvinogona kuitika somugumisiro vakapopotedzana kana misiyano mikuru.

Dzimwe kukumbira "iwe" angava migumisiro nezvokuti kukurukura pamutemo zvakasikwa uye rinowanikwa pamberi kunze komutemo vanhu umo mativi kazhinji kutaura mumwe "iwe" kuti zvinoenderana zvavo nokuzvibata. Muchiitiko chino, akataura mumwe se "iwe" kupupura kwete nezvokuchinja interpersonal ukama, asi chete mumamiriro ezvinhu zvinhu. Somuenzaniso, vadzidzisi pamberi vadzidzi vanowanzotanga kukurukura nemumwe "iwe" Zvisinei, akasiya oga, pasi ezvinhu akakodzera, anogona kutenga zvisina "iwe".

Yemanyorero kunyorwa kurapwa

Zvose pamusoro nokuzvibata inofanira kuonekwa zviitiko apo kukurukura hakusi kutukana uye pakunyora. Panyaya iyi, chisazita zvako uye imi muri pamwe tsamba guta inzira wetsika mumwe chete chaiyo rwendo. Kana tsamba kana zvimwe gwaro iri kuchinjwa kuti nhamba vanhu, chisazita muzvizhinji rinyorwe pamwe yakaderera nyaya (diki) tsamba. Nyora "iwe" ne tsamba guru, kureva kupfuura mumwe munhu ari chikanganiso.