Mabhuku e Irvine Yalom: kuongorora, mazita, tsanangudzo shoma uye kuongororwa

Mabhuku anonzi Irwin Yalom anozivikanwa zvikuru nhasi. Sei vakakurumbira kudaro? Munyori pachake, zvechokwadi, haazivikanwi nevanhu vose, asi kune avo vanofarira mune zvepfungwa uye kuzvidzora. Irwin Yalom muongorori wepfungwa wekuAmerica, muumbi wemabhuku anoshamisa, akazopedzisira ava nani. Mune magwaro ake, pfungwa dzepfungwa dzinobatanidza nehuwandu hwehupenyu, kunzwisisa kwakadzama kwechinhu chezvinhu zvinogona kuwanikwa. Anoziva zvaari kunyora nezvazvo, uye anoisa pfungwa dzake kuvanhu vakawanda kwazvo.

Kutarisa nekuongororwa, mabhuku eIrvine Yalom anoverengwa mumhepo imwechete, inoita simba guru pamusana pekuziva komunhu wacho, kuwedzera maonero ezvakaitika zvakapoteredza. Vaverengi vanoti izvozvo nokudzidza izvi zvekuziva, hazvibviri kuramba zvisina hanya. Ndinoda kuvadana kunwa kunwa, nokuti vanopa mukana wekuchinja mamiriro ezvinhu ehupenyu hwavo. Irwin Yalom zvechokwadi anoratidza maonero matsva enyika. Nhamba yemabhuku inowanikwa munyaya ino.

"Schopenhauer semushonga"

Maererano nevadzidzi, basa rinotora pamapeji ekutanga uye hairegi kuenda kusvikira pakupedzisira. Iko protagonist - muzivi Firipi - anobatanidzwa mukuti iye anopa vanhu zano, anovabatsira kugadzirisa matambudziko ehupenyu. Pakati pebasa rake rose uye nyika yose ndiyo dzidziso yefilosofi yeSchopenhauer. Rimwe zuva murume anodzidza kuti ane mwedzi mishomanana yakasara kuti ararame. Pano, pfungwa yake inoshanduka zvachose, anotanga kuongororazve makore aakagara uye kutarisa zviitiko zvinenge zvichiitika zvakasiyana. Izvo zvinoitika kwaari kuti zvinokwanisika kugadzirisa kukanganisa kwakaitwa kamwechete uye kuporesa murwere uyo makore mazhinji apfuura akambomubvunza kuti awane rubatsiro. Somugumisiro, kune vanhu vaviri. Mumwe wavo anodzidza kutenda maari, kuita zvirongwa. Uye yechipiri iri kugadzirira kufa kwava pedo. Anoda kubvisa mhosva uye agadzirisa chinangwa chake.

Hazvigoneki kutora imwe nyanzvi yepfungwa dzepfungwa kupfuura Yale Irwin. Mabhuku - "Schopenhauer sekurapa" nevamwe vazhinji - kuratidza kuti zvakaoma sei dzimwe nguva kurarama, asi zvakakosha sei kuti urege kurasikirwa nekutenda iwe pachako uye iwe unyanzvi hwako.

"Kurapa rudo"

Mune mubhuku, shoko guru nderokuti pfungwa ipi neipi yakasimba inoita kuti tisasununguka. Vakawanda vari mukuvimba kwakasimba kwakadaro kune hukama hwavasingaoni kuti upenyu hwavo hunoenderera sei. Kutenderera murudo hakusi isiri. Ichokwadi ndechokuti zvakaoma kuti munhu akadaro atende maari pachake nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero kana zvimwe, kuti aongorore tarisiro paanonyatsokosha.

"Kurapwa kwerudo," zvinopesana nechitendero chakakurumbira, chiripo. Iwe unongoda kudzidza kuti ungazviremekedza sei, isa zvinangwa zvehupenyu uye edza kuzviita. Kungofanana neIrwin Yalom pachake, mabhuku ake akatobatsira vanhu vakawanda kuti vatende mukati mavo uye kuti vawane hukama hwemukati. Kubva pamunhu chaiye kunoda kushivirira uye kutsungirira, uyewo nechido chekutamira kune chinangwa chemuviri. Munyori anoita mubasa rake pfungwa yekukosha kwekuchengetedza rusununguko rwomukati, kukwanisa kutarisana nenzira dzose nekuita zvose, kuita zvisarudzo nemaune. Izvo zvakavanzika zvehupenyu hunofadza zvinogoverwa zvikuru nevadzidzi ne Irvin Yal.

"Urevi pamubhedha"

Iri bhuku rinoshamisa rinokubvumira kuti unzwisise izvo vanachiremba vanofunga nezvepfungwa pavanenge vari muchikamu nemutengi. Nyaya yacho ichakuzarurira iwe chokwadi chechokwadi, icho iwe usati wakambofungidzira kare. Zvinotarisa kuti ma-psychotherapeti vanhu vakangofanana nevanhu vose, uye vane unhu hwakakwana, matambudziko uye miedzo. Chikanganiso chikuru chingave chokufunga munhu webasa iri se guru guru-guru uye muoni. Bhuku rino richakuzarurira kukurukurirana kunonakidza kweyanzvi pakati pavo. Iwe unoda kunzwa here kuti ma-psychotherapist ari kutaura nezvei uye anoenderana sei nebasa ravo?

"Nhema pamubhedha" inokubvumira kuti uone chokwadi chehupenyu, kubatsira munhu kuziva zvaanotarisira uye otanga kubata vamwe vanhu vane hanya uye vane shungu.

"Amai uye chinangwa choupenyu"

Muhupenyu hwahwo hwose, zvakasikwa kuti munhu atsvake chinangwa pane zviri kuitika. Izvi zvinoguma zvisingazivi uye zvinopfuurira kusvika pakufa. Munyori anosimbisa pfungwa yokuti mumamiriro ezvinhu apo inotarisirwa kutora chisarudzo chinokosha, tinogara tichifunga nezveamai vedu - mazano, rubatsiro, kubatanidzwa. Zviri nyore kuti munhu wose anokosha kuti anzwe kuti anodiwa uye anotorwa nomumwe munhu asingatenderwi.

Kuzvipira kwakadaro uye kusingagumi kunogona kungove rudo rweamai. Izvi zvinowanzoitika kakawanda zvisingazivi, asi vamwe varwere vanonzwisisika vanozvibatanidza pachavo vachifunga kuti vane mumisoro yavo hurukuro dzisina kufanira nemunhu ari pedyo zvikuru munyika. Mabhuku eIrvine Yalom inotarisirwa kuzarura kubatana kwakadzika pakati pevanhu, kugadzirisa zvinetso zvinopfurikidza nekugadzirwa nekugadzirwa kweunhu.

"Upenyu husingatyi rufu"

Wati wakambofunga here kuti sei vanhu vachitya kurasikirwa nehombodo yavo? Kunyangwe avo vanoona kutambura mumuviri kana mupfungwa, vachiomerera kuhupenyu nesimba ravo rose. Hakuna munhu anoda kuparara pasina tsananguro, kuparara mukati mezvinhu zvose nekurega kuvapo. Kutya rufu ndiko kusimba kwevanhu, inotarisirwa kupona kwevanhu munyika. Inozviratidza kune vechidiki, uyewo kune vakwegura. Irwin Yalom anoti vana chete ndivo havana kutya rufu, nokuti havana kubvunzwa mibvunzo yakadaro zvakadaro. Kuva munhu wakakura, munhu anorasikirwa nekwanisi yekufarira zvinhu zvisinganzwisisiki uye anopinda muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva.

Munyori anoratidza maitiro ekutya rufu uye anopa mazano anokosha pamusoro pekudzikisa kuratidzwa kwekutambudzika kwakanyanya. Mapurisa anotarisirwa kuumba ukama hune hukama nevanhu vari pedyo, kutsvaga chinangwa chehupenyu, kuzivisa zvinangwa uye mabasa anotungamirira, anobatsira netarisiro yekutarisa zuva rose rinouya. Irwin Yalom anotaura nezvekukosha kwekuve. Mabhuku ake azere nekushingaira uye maonero ane tariro pamusoro pezviitiko zvinenge zvichiitika. Kuti ufare, unoda kudzidza kugamuchira zvinhu zvose zvinowira kune yedu, uye kwete kuedza kupokana nechinangwa chaicho chemagumo.

Chipo chePychotherapy

Nyanzvi dzinoti iyi ibhuku rinokosha, risingagoni kukanganwa. Ichave yakakosha kune avo avo vanofunga nezvepfungwa avo vangotanga rwendo rwavo. Basa iri harisi nyore nyore uye rinoda munhu kuti awedzere kuzvitsaurira, funga nezvechinetso chemuteereri. Pakuvamba kwebhuku, zvinotsanangurwa kuti kusarudza basa hakuna kurega kufanana nekutora lotto. Nyanzvi chaiye ndeyeye anogara achishanda nepamusoro pachake pachake. Pano hazvina kukwana kuti uve neruzivo rwehutano, zvinokosha kuti uwane mutoro pane imwe nhanho. Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa inofanira kuva nechivimbo mukati mayo, kubatanidza zvinobudirira nevamwe vanhu. Bhuku ra Irwin Yalom "Chipo chePy Psychotherapy" chinotibvumira kuti tione kukosha kwekugadzikana kwebasa repfungwa, pamwe nekushungurudzika kwayo kwakanyanya.

Makoronike Okuporesa

Nyaya yacho ndeyodhadhi yechiremba uye murwere. Anogara achitaura zvinonyunyuta uye kusakwanisa kutarisana nemamiriro ezvinhu, uyewo nzira dzokukunda dambudziko riripo. Bhuku rinopa uchapupu hwechokwadi hwokuti munhu anotsamira zvakakwana pane izvo nyika yake yepanyika ichave yakafanana.

Zvinosuruvarisa, havasi vose vedu vanoda kuve nemhosva yezviito zvedu nezviito. Vakawanda vanosarudza kungoenda chete nekuderera, usazvidzvinyirira zvakanyanya, uye zvino vakashamisika nekusava nekusafara.

"Tose takasikirwa zuva"

Pano munyori anobata pamusoro pehukama hwehukama uye anoratidza kuti zvakadini zvinokonzera kuzviziva kune mumwe munhu. Tinofanira kudzidza kurarama maererano nevanhu vakavapoteredza kuitira kuti tive nekukwanisa zvizere uye tifambe tichienda kune zvatarota. Upenyu, zvinosuruvarisa, inopera nguva. Uye kana iwe usingatori matanho, hazvibviri kukwanisa kuwana mhinduro dzinogutsa. Kubva pane tarisiro dzose pachava nehupenyu hunosiririsa uye kusavapo kwemhando ipi zvayo yezvido.

Irvin Yalom, mabhuku: kuongorora

Zvinyorwa zvemunyori uyu zvinotaurirwa zvose kune vanyori vari mumunda wepfungwa, uye vanhuwo zvavo vasina kufambidzana nesayenzi. Nhoroondo dzakawanda dzokuti dzakasangana nemabhuku aya mumugwagwa wemararamiro evanhu uye vakavakamanikidza kutarisa kutsva kwezviitiko. Kuongorora nezvemabasa kunonyanya kunaka. Maererano nevadzidzisi, mabhuku eIrwin Yalom anozadzwa nechiedza chemukati, chido chenguva dzose chekuchinja-chinja, kubudirira kwehukama nekuvimbika mukati mavo.

Nokudaro, zvakakosha kuzivana nemabasa emunyori uyu.