Types rudo uye dzavo unhu pfupi rwechiGiriki

Nguva dzose uye pakati pendudzi dzose rudo kwainzi chaiyoiyo, kupfuura yakadzama uye kunokukura kunzwa, izvo zvinogona tenzi murume zvakakwana uye vamupe dzakadururwa hwemafaro, kana dema isina, rima uye kutambura. Munhu wese muupenyu anosangana kuti pfungwa uye zvinofungidzirwa kuti kune marudzi akasiyana rudo.

Asi rudo hakusi chete. Kungazviratidza nenzira dzakatosiyana, uye mumwe munhu anounza pachavo tsanangudzo kwavo rudo, yakavakirwa ruzivo. Hapana zvechokwadi haagoni kutaura chii chaizvo chiri chikonzero, asi pane zvakawanda ngano, ngano uye kunyange akadhindwa dzouzivi kuedza zvimwe kutsanangura hunhu kunzwa ichi. Ndizvo chaizvo akazviratidza akasiyana-siyana kupatsanura, maererano izvo mhando dzakasiyana rudo.

Kubva nemaonero ichi, echiGiriki uzivi uye mungano zvinofadza chimwe kudzidza. Somuenzaniso, pane zvinhu zvitatu mhando rudo pakati nevaGiriki.

Inonyanya unoshamisa chezvizvi Eros. Rudo rwakadaro inopa chido simba, mumwe chitandadzo. Lovers vanowanzotevedzera batanidza zvakakwana munhu vane mumuviri chete.

Ludus runoonekwa kuva akasiyana zvachose fomu rudo. mhando iyi yemhuka nomurume, umo chido, chido, asi manzwiro akanyatsofanana asingafungi. Manzwiro akadaro kunakidza, tichikanganwa marwadzo, godo uye kusavimbika. Rudo rwakadaro kwakafanana kunyepedzera, iyo kana asiri ndichisunga rikasauya kupinda chinhu yakawanda.

Pane kumwe rudo, rinonzi kunyatsoteerera, uye ushamwari kupfuura rudo. Pakati vamwe pane nguva dzose rudo, munyoro uye ukama, asi-unoparadza zvose chido chisipo.

Asi chokwadi chiri matatu chete zvinokosha, zvikuru mhando rudo rwuri chaizvo kusingawanikwi wayo yakachena chimiro. Ndokusaka uzivi hwechiGiriki ikoko nokusanganisira mhando rudo, izvo, sezvinei, muri kure kupfuura zvinozivikanwa.

Somuenzaniso, imwe zvakajairika chimiro anonzi pragma, izvo maererano pezvawakaita ndiwo musanganiswa zvachose uye ludus. Uyu chikuru muenzaniso pragmatic rudo, kana, sezvazvakanyorwa kunzi rudo zvimunakire. Hongu, kunzwa harisi zvakare rakadzika, asi panguva imwe chete vanhu vari kubatanidzwa mumwe uye kuona vamwe unyoro uye tinochifarira. Manzwiro akadaro nyore chaizvo kudzora, uye munhu anogona kudzora pasina dambudziko. Manzwiro haana cloud pfungwa uye havasi kumanikidzwa kuita anopenga mabasa. Just vanhu zvakanaka pamwe chete uye izvi zvinogona kuvapo uye kushayiwa kukarukureta.

Chimwe chinonyanya kutibaya mwoyo siyana rudo - zviri nokushamisa, inova yakatarwa kwokuoma uye eros. Rudo urwu zirokwazvo udyire uye murwere, haina kuziva noudyire uye anobva kutarisirwa nomudiwa. Zvinosuruvarisa, manzwiro aya zvisinganyanyi kuitika. Rudo vanhu vakaita zvachose, ivo chete mudutu mumwe achifunga nenguva usingatsananguriki hwemafaro. Uye kana iri rudo rwezvokwadi, kuti vaviri achafara kunyange mhuri nyonganyonga kana bopoto diki. Ukuwo, kunzwa zviri zvishoma ngozi. Pashure pezvose, kana munhu abvise chinhu achikudza yake, upenyu hwake anongoti akakunda chinangwa.

Chimwe chezvinhu ngozi siyana manzwiro - zvokudarikidza. Pano, kuti zita anotaura pacharo, nokuti zvokudarikidza anoonekwa kuti musanganiswa eros uye ludus. Iyi kwazvo pfungwa, enzanisa Kuramba ichi. mhando iyi rudo zvinoparadza mhuri dzifare, imwe mhaka nokuurayiwa uye njodzi zvinounza upenyu hwevanhu uye kuparadzwa marwadzo. Pashure pezvose, chinokosha maatomu akafanana ndizvo novimba chinhu achikudza uye nechokwadi zviri reciprocity. Uye kana rudo haana kutanga kurarama pamwe chete, zvino mhando ichi, sezvo mutemo, zvinoitika mune dzimwe chimiro kana haarambi zvachose, achisiya marwadzo, ruvengo uye hasha. Kuti vararame kwenguva refu yakadai makura kunzwa hazvitomboiti, nekuti pamwe mufaro vauye kushushikana mupfungwa uye macabre.

Kutaura zvazviri, pane akadhindwa zhinji uye mabasa Rakakwanira pfungwa iyi usingafi. Uye kana iwe kudzidza mhando rudo Fromm, tinogona kuona kuti allocates uye vanonzi rudo sehama, raakanga anoona inokosha. Mupfungwa iyi mune hanya, unyoro, chido kudzivirira. mhando iyi mubhaibheri rudo kana munhu anoda muvakidzani wake sezvaanozviita, kunyange kana vakarasika zvachose kukwanisa kuda.

Rudo kunogona kuva zvakasiyana, kutakura rufaro kana kusuwa, kukanda nenzira whirlpool inoshamisa nezvekufadza, kana nokusingaperi muchikuya mujeri kurwadziwa. Zvose zvinoenderana yezvakaita vanhu, zvido zvavo uye chido kuvandudza.