Family tsika: mienzaniso. Modern Problems Family

Home uye mhuri munhu - ndiko kunonyanya nzvimbo anodiwa, vanokosheswa uye nguva dzose kumirira. In pedyo mwoyo wemamongi unogona nguva dzose kuwana rutsigiro, kunzwisisa, zvinonyaradza, vanonzwa kuchengetwa nevamwe. Zviri pamusoro izvi zvinodiwa uye akavaka nheyo, izvo zvichava chinokosha pakuvaka upenyu yemberi nenzira nomumwe. Asi, zvinosuruvarisa kwakadaro musiyano pakati rwapedyo ukama hapasi kuitika. Kuwedzera kune hunhu hwakanaka, kunonakidza, mwoyo, mhuri vachiri asingafari, kuchinja, kukwana. Izvi zvinomutsa mubvunzo: nei? Nei vamwe muchato, mhuri, vana kufara uye afadzwa kubudirira kwavo, uye nenguva mumwe kuramba chikonzero yokusuwa nokukangaidzika?

Family tsika: Mienzaniso vanofanira vakakodzera

Mumwe mubatanidzwa pakati pemurume mukadzi simba, inobva zvinofanira kuva norudo. Chokwadi, chero mhuri, sezvinoita munhu, ane ayo hunhu pachake inokosha uye tsika. Sezvo munhu anosarudza nenzira yake youpenyu, pahwaro kuzviitira pakutanga, uye mhuri iri pachishandurwa kuva akagadzirwa dyidzana ukama uye ukama mupfungwa. Kukurukurirana anosarudza zvanhasi uye nezveramangwana

Chii basa netsika dzemhuri?

Pfungwa dzakadai mhuri uye mhuri tsika, nguva dzose zvakabatana chaizvo uye mumwe pasina mumwe haako. Kana mhuri iri vasipo, kwakabva mhuri tsika vapiwa kurasikirwa zvadzinoreva. Hapana dzinochengeterwa nherera ukama pakati pemurume nemukadzi havapo uye kumbobvira avapo pasina chinokosha dzemitemo. Zviri ngaavongwe kwavari kwemakore mazhinji, vaviri Rinotarisira kuramba utano hwomudzimu, kubatana uye kuvimbika. On kutarisirwa norudo Makavakwa tsika tsika dzemhuri. Mienzaniso zvinogona kuonekwa ukama yakanaka apo vose vanhu kuremekedzana, mubatanidzwa akasikwa pavo mumwe zvake, asi tora unhu mudiwa wako. Pane vaviri vakura unhu kuumba chimwe inowirirana ezvinhu, apo achaberekwa ivo kukura vana vavo.

Mhuri uye mhuri tsika, dzavo kukosha uye kudiwa

Dzimwe pfungwa tsika dzemhuri zvinoreva chero chinyakare, kana zvavo nemashoko. Apo mumwe munhu anotaura nyaya "tsika dzemhuri uye tsika mumhuri yangu", kazhinji inova nyaya inopisa gakava, vangatova kuitika kusanzwisisa uye kutsoropodzwa.

Tsanangudzo "tsika dzemhuri" anogona dzimwe nguva vanopfeka indigestible uye yainetsa mashoko. Uye nokuti zvakakodzera zvikuru kuti akapiwa pfungwa anogona kunzi zvinotevera: mhuri tsika - mugumisiro rakabudirira uye inogara kwenguva refu kudyidzana pakati vanhu pamwe kazhinji kugamuchirwa uye yakasimbiswa dzemunharaunda dzechitendero. Pano kutaura - kuramba uye kusimbisa mhuri tsika. Panguva yose ukama hwomurume nomudzimai mhuri tsika zviri kuziviswa uye kukudziridzwa muupenyu hwavo. Vari kuedza kudzidzisa vechiduku mbuya, dzimwe nguva anobatsira mashoko panyaya iyi kunogona kuwanikwa kubva nhepfenyuro, uye kutaura nezvazvo mumachechi, uye zvichingodaro. D.

Modern maonero netsika dzemhuri

Kuremekedza, chivimbo, zvichireva kuberekana, utsvene amai, kuvimbika, rudo - ichi hachisi chinhu mishoma kuti dzinokosha tsika dzemhuri. Kwakaitwa dingindira "tsika Family" angava anoreva zvakadzama randinogara mune chokwadi kuti pano muchato rinooneka sezvo chete kwakarurama chimiro kurarama pamwe chete, varume nevakadzi. Kuchengeta Kutenda uye nokuda mumwe, ivo vana vavo, uye nokudaro mazhinji nhangemutange.

Pari, chinhu chakadai tsika dzemhuri, munyika dzakawanda ikarapwa zvakasiyana. Zvangoitikawo kuti Munenge hapana rusununguko rwokusarudza, kukwanisa kushandura unhu hwavo. Kurambana, somuenzaniso, zvinopesana chinyakare canons.

A chitsva Kutarira tsaru misimboti

The shanduko uye kutanga kwenzanga, maonero matsva, ukuwo, uye dzinoumba kunzwisisa itsva tsika dzemhuri. Nhasi, tsika zvinokosheswa nevabereki nevana zvinosiyana yekudyidzana. Zvapedzisira akarondedzera pfungwa iyi ine zvakawanda mberi, asi simba hunhu. Iyi Muitiro iri nokuti chizvarwa chimwe nechimwe wechidiki anotevedzana zvinotora kubva rapfuura chete zvaunoda, kunoita pachake, zvino apera, tsika yake mhuri uye tsika. Chokwadi, pfungwa dzakadai chivimbo, rudo, kutsigirana, kuremekedza, uye mutsa, uye chinokosha kuti munhu remakore rechi21. Asi, zvinosuwisa, vari pasi nezvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana, izvo zvinokonzerwa matambudziko munzanga.

Family kunotanga "We"

Maererano migumisiro yose Sociological kuongorora, mhuri, National tsika vechiduku vanhu havasi wokutanga kana kunyange wechipiri. Vakanga hwasvika dzidzo, basa, ukama neshamwari, kupindwa muropa. Kuchengetedza tsika dzechinyakare mhuri, mienzaniso kuchizvarwa chevechiduku vanofanira zvikurukuru aendeswa kubva pane zvavakaona. Uye kunyange kana munhu hakusi kuti akadaro vachifara uye asingakwanisi nehwakanaka. pamwe nedzidzo kuva ukama hwemhuri rudo, unofanira kuedza kuva vanoziva zera kubata uye pazvinhu muvakidzani wedu kuedza kuita kuti nyika ino ive nani uye yakajeka. Ndiro simba vose, nekuti sezvaakataura nyika-mbiri chaiwo Victor Hugo: ". Munyika kwevanhu mutsa yomukati - ndiro zuva"

zvangu zvose - ndezvako!

Mune zvimwe zvinhu, zvinokosha yakawanda yokunyatsoongorora nyaya muudzame kuti zvakarurama kutsanangura pachako chii mhuri tsika. Mienzaniso aratidze mufananidzo Zvinotova pachena yavo kukosha zvose uwandu hwezvinhu zvose zvabatanidzwa. uye mumwe nomumwe.

Sei murume, mudzimai, uye vana vavo kuti vave vanofara, kana ukama hwavo rirege inobva manzwiro akadai sorudo. Terri Gudkaynd akati: "Rudo - ndiko kana hwangu upenyu zvose kuudza mumwe munhu." Uye akanga zvachose kurudyi: sei zvakasiyana iyi?

Tinozvarwa tiri kuda

Rudo - misoro uye rakadzika kunzwa, dzimwe nguva kunyange watenzi chinyoreso zvakaoma kuratidza nemashoko chii pacharwo anobvumawo, sezvo sei munhu. Vamwe tora chive chaizvo mumwe nomumwe, pamusoro izvo lining uye netsika mhuri uye tsika. Pano munhu ari kuedza kuva shamwari yepedyo kuti mwoyo wako napo.

Love - saka yakadzika uye zvapararira pakuti havambofi zvakarurama anorondedzerwa nemashoko. Tinogona chete kunzwisisa kuti chaizvo mumwe munhu, chido nguva dzose kuva naye.

Maererano Erich Fromm, rudo nokubatana pakati vanhu vane yakanaka ukoshi ose makuru kwouzivi uye humanistic mugadziriro zvose West uye East chinokosha. Kunzwa uku - simba rinopfuura, pasina iro hapana munhu priori zvakazara ukama. Vakaroorana mumwe kuva kunyange pedyo apo kunzwa hanya zvechokwadi uye kutsigirwa naye.

The chakavanzika ukama refu uye yakabatana?

Kurarama muvanhu, mumwe munhu kanenge dzimwe nguva, asi anotarisana kuzvidya mwoyo, matambudziko uye vemarudzi ose nezvinetso. Dzimwe nguva kuparara hope dzake uye tariro. Mira woga dutu nokuchiva zvakaoma zvikuru uye dzimwe nguva anenge hazviiti. Zviri mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, rubatsiro hama neshamwari ave chinokosha uye zvaioneka. The imba apo vakamirira hama, vanonzwisisa vanhu - iri yakachengeteka apo unogona kuwana rutsigiro uye kuwana simba rokukunda zvose nematambudziko zvichaitirwa kuuya opfuura nepakati upenyu nomufaro mumwoyo mangu.

No mubatanidzwa hazvibviri pasina tinzwisisane uye kutsaura vamwe. kumifananidzo dzakadaro vana mumhuri anofanira kuumbwa pazera duku. Yakakwirira yakati sandara ukama pakati vawanani, vabereki nevana vavo kunokwanisika kana mumwe pati noruremekedzo uye tsitsi kune pfungwa zvimwe zvido uye zvinangwa. Pano, chero zvazvingava hakufaniri kuva nechisimba uye kumanikidza kupindira mune private inosvika nhengo dzemhuri nechinangwa rokumukunda, kuputsa kana "kuchinja", "chinja" nokuda pachako.

Wose uye kuvimbika ndiwo musimboti pachena uye kwomwoyo ukama pakati vamwe. Izvi zvinoshandawo kwete chete kune zvirongwa murume-mukadzi, asi vabereki vana zano. Nokuti wechipiri, kuti maximize zvinoratidza nyaya, kunyange kupedza akadzikama awa "Family tsika dzavo kukosha kuti murume." Kids pachena kuti kunaka pamusoro panguva kunonyanyisa okuti ndiyo kiyi imwe chizenga zvinokosha anofara musha - chivimbo kuti zvakaoma kuti uwane, asi nyore kurasikirwa pakarepo. Kuona mutoro uye simba izvi unhu vanokwanisa ipi mubatanidzwa kuitira hunofadza uye refu upenyu.

How kuunza tsika dzemhuri?

Achishamisika pamusoro, uye chii tsika mhuri uye tsika mumhuri yangu, munhu anogona kusangana zvinoverengeka kusingafadzi uye kwete kare pachena kuti pachavo zvinhu. Asi regai kunetseka - zvose fixable. Chero ukama angatanga uye rokuchinja nani. Nhasi kudyidzana pakati hama anogona conditionally kukamurwa kuva netsika uye ano uye dzimwe nguva kunetsana nomumwe nomumwe.

Mumwe munhu ane kwavo nomumwe yokuti sei kuchengeta ukama uye muchato pachavo. Chinhu munyaya ino kudzidzisa vabereki kuti zvimwe vakakwanisa kunzwisisa kubva yavo ruzivo. Apo akatanga kuumbwa mhuri wechiduku, madzimai havasi kufunga zvinoreva kuremekedza mafungiro shamwari, kuremekedza ake pachake nzvimbo. Kazhinji, vakabva vanotanga kutarisira mumwe zvakanaka uye vanodavira kuti izvi ishamwari yakanaka anofanira kusika izvozvo. Panguva iyi, tinofanira kunzwisisa kuti mutoro pamwe rinopindirana zvose varume nevakadzi zvakafanana. Pano, mumwe nomumwe akagara panzvimbo yayo kuti bonde vanofanira kudzivirira uye kukudziridza zvose kuti anokwanisa kuita muchato zvakanaka uye vana ramangwana - happy.

Zvakanakisa, haugoni kuva, asi unofanira kuedza

Chero nguva ukama (kana zviri nomudzimai, vave vakaroorana kwemakore akawanda, kana mhuri duku) inofanira kuroorana kuzvidzora dzidzo, kushandira pachako. Vamwe vanhu vanofunga kuti kudzidza kudzora hasha, haagoni kufinha, asi hazvisi. matambudziko Chero vanogona kudzidza kugadzirisa murunyararo, uye kuti kuchava kutanga inoenda yakawiriranwa mufaro. Somugumisiro, munguva pfupi, vaviri upenyu ichachinjwa kuva nani, kuti zviri nani kana kushandurwa kukurukurirana. Ndizvozvo, kukunda matambudziko, uye vakaumba mhuri chaiyo, uye netsika dzemhuri itsvene uye anoremekedzwa pakati pehama.

Vana - flower upenyu

Hapana chiitiko havafaniri kukanganwa pamusoro vaduku. Vana kunyanya hunodiwa rugare mhuri uye kubudirira, nekuti ndivo kupfuura pachena uye kudzivirirwa Generic kubatana. Vanofanira kuratidza nyasha uye nomuenzaniso kuratidza sei kukosha mhuri uye tsanangura kuti nei zvakakodzera kuti kukudza tsika. dzidzo yakadaro yetsika uye tsika haachazovipo pasina. The inotungamirwa vana akarurama pfungwa pamusoro upenyu uye tsika zvichava kiyi hwavo hunofadza upenyu hwemhuri mune ramangwana.

Kuti tinzwisise vana uye kuyaruka ari musoro ichi kunobatsirawo uye zvikoro. Munguva ichangopfuura rakachengetedzwa wakaitwa homeroom, tsika dzemhuri, inova huru nyaya kukurukurirana. Iri danho guru mberi, sezvo kunyatsogadzikana mwana ndiani uye kumubatsira kuwana nzvimbo yake muupenyu.

ramangwana rakajeka

Kare, nokuda chishoma mashoko uye nokuda kwenzanga itsva nhomba zvekufungidzira tsika Somuenzaniso, akadai kutsvaka chinzvimbo uye chinzvimbo munzanga, mari, vana ndivo anokosha uye anodiwa zvinoumba upenyu hwakanaka kuzoserera kupinda necheseri. Izvi rava dzakazara ngozi munzanga yevanhu. Professional vadzidzisi vakamhanyira kununura uye vakatanga kutaura zvakawanda pamusoro tsika dzemhuri, kusimbisa kukosha kwavo mumwe nomumwe. Parallel iyi muitiro mutariri ari hurumende pamwero nokuda nezvemhosva njodzi kuchizvarwa chevechiduku. Tinovimba kuti vakawanda kuedza - vabereki, zvikoro, uye rutsigiro hurumende - chibereko chinokosha. Pashure pezvose, raishanda mhuri yevanhu ose - ndicho chinhu chikuru chinoita kuti iwe kuenderera mberi kuti zvakazara kunzwa upenyu uye udyire, nomwoyo wose rudo.