Hanzvadzi, murume: zvakadai zvakaoma ukama hwemhuri

Chero mutauro pane mazita akawanda saka mhuri, zvose Russian. About baba vomurume banal, tsano uye kunyange kutaura kwete, vose vanoziva kuti iye ndiani. Asi imi munoziva Somuenzaniso, kuti varume hanzvadzi mbiri akanga mumwe mu-mitemo, mudzimai uye hama mbiri - yatrovkami? Sezvineiwo, mumutauro wokuRussia, pane kwakakodzera chaizvo uye anopedza zvirevo uye mashoko anoratidza kunzwisisa ukama mumhuri. Somuenzaniso: "dzomumaguta Godmother vanamanyawi", "zhurliva kuti amai mutemo", ". Pana Tiffany toschi muhomwe"

Asi nhasi tichakurukura hama - hanzvadzi yomurume wake kana muroora. Munoziva nguva sei kare akataura pamusoro munun'una wake? In-law - kana zlovka-mutemo - spendthrift! Uye isu tiri achiti: "zolovushkiny kutaura repem kumira." Chii ukama ichi chakakodzera kurapa kwakadaro?

Hanzvadzi murume nomudzimai vari dzinenge nguva dzose akawedzera tsamwa ukama. Ndiyo chete rinozivikanwa kupesana ukama "mai vomudzimai - mu-mutemo" kana "mu-mutemo - mwanasikana". Panguva iyoyowo kutambura bato kazhinji funga pachavo vakadzi vava nechokwadi chokuti mukuwasha kubvumira pachavo kupindira mune private upenyu vawanani, nenzira yavo youpenyu, iri nzvimbo dzidzo yevana uye kuita mhuri bhajeti. Mukuita kudaro, muroora kazhinji kuti: ivo vanofunga kuti vane zvizere kodzero. Ndokusaka mukadzi kazhinji kuderedza uchikurukura vamwene kushoma, kana kanenge edza kuzviita. Uye kunyange vanofanira kuzokorokotedza hanzvadzi yomurume wake kamwe kana kaviri pagore anova dambudziko chairo, sezvo pane unopinza nokurwisana.

Chikonzero izvi - kushaiwa kunzwisisa banal divi, kusada kubvuma nemumwe nzvimbo. Uye atadzirwa kazhinji ndiyo murume. Ngatiedzei kunzwisisa chii chiri seri kusanzwisisa ichi.

hanzvadzi yomurume inogona kurondedzera kuna mukoma wake nenzira dzakawanda. Chekutanga, unogona kushamwaridzana pacharo naamai (hanzvadzi yakwegura kana bedzi akura munhu). Muchiitiko chino, zvichaita kureva munin'ina wake akanyatsoti tsitsi uye patinobvumira kupindira muupenyu hwake. Rwakadini kupindira ino kuvimba kungwarira uye sei iye anobvumirwa kuita kudaro. Uyewo, hanzvadzi murume wangu anogona chirongwa mufananidzo baba mukoma wake, kuedza nezvebasa rake somunhu mudziviriri. Somugumisiro, zvichaita kodzero dzavo kubatanidzwa hwake, asina hanya kuchinja ayo ezvinhu mhuri. Kazhinji, zvinhu zvakadaro wake chokuita kuruvanze udyire, asi dzimwe nguva muroora nyore haana nguva kunzwisisa zvose kuchinja. Chimwe chinetso ichi zvinhu kuti hanzvadzi yomurume inoramba kushandisa zvake uye mari, hapana nehanya nomudzimai womukoma wake. Yeuka, sezvo vachiti - ". Vakoma spendthrift" Pano mhiri mubvunzo uye mubvunzo: hanzvadzi yomurume anoramba achifunga kuti ane kodzero kushandisa mari mukoma wake (imba yake, motokari, yokurenda, etc ...) Vose pamwe nezvinhu zvavo pachavo. nzvimbo yaro chete kunzwisisa: akashandisa kuzviita, uye haisi kuzochinja tsika dzavo nokuda vamwe vakadzi "kunze".

Chinonyanya kwazvakarerekera nzira - ndiro ushamwari pakati hanzvadzi uye mukoma. Asi iyi pane kusawirirana, kazhinji nemhaka negodo zvenhando. Uye kuti godo murume hanzvadzi kumukadzi mutsva muupenyu munin'ina wake, uye mudzimai hama zvavo murume wake uye zvikurukuru mu-law.

Pane imwe nzira kubva pakadai? Ndinoda kutaura kuti pane, asi hazvina chokwadi. Kuitira kudzivisa kuwedzera ikoko, zvakakodzera kuti mapato ose kuti mukakavadzane abstracted kubva manzwiro, izvo zvisingaiti. Kunyange zvakadaro, unofanira dzinenge kuedza kuita nhano kune mumwe, kutaura, kuedza kunzwisisa, kuziva zvikuru dzinonetsa nguva. Izvi zvinofanira kuitwa, zvimwe pachava nomumwe zvinhu zviviri: kana mukadzi anorasikirwa murume kana mumwe - munin'ina wake.