Hwokukurukura: chii uye nei vaida?

Hwokukurukura - munhu munhu anogona kutaura nevamwe vanhu, zvakakwana nokududzira mashoko nayo anogamuchira, uyewo yaro achitumira zvakanaka. unyanzvi Ava zvikuru munzanga kose zuva unofanira kutaura nevanhu vakawanda. Vamwe ounyanzvi hwokugadzira zvinoda mari yakawanda, nokuti mune zvimwe marudzi mabasa chikuru nzira basa iri kukurukura: ichi ndiwo venhau, zvepfungwa, dzidzo, evanhu, etc. Zvisinei, nyanzvi zvinodiwa - unongova chikamu chiduku zvikonzero hwokukurukura zvinokosha zvakadaro .. Pashure pezvose, munhu vanofanira kukurukura uye kuti asangane mupfungwa, magariro Kuziva uye nyore kuti vapone. Vanhu vaya vanoregeredza zvavo vaita, kundikana, uye zvinonyanya zvakaoma kuziva.

Hwokukurukura: kutsanangura

Pane nowekuti pfungwa iri zvepfungwa: kukurukura kugona. Ndicho raora unyanzvi hwevanhu vari zvakakwana nokuda zvikuru munzanga zvakatipoteredza uye inosanganisira:

• ruzivo zvausingakwanisi uye zvetsika nemagariro kukurukura;
• kuziva tsika;
• nhaka nokuzvibata;
• kuratidzwa rutoto zvakanaka;
• nyanzvi pakushandisa kutaurirana zvinhu.

Vanoshanda zvakakwana pamwe evanhu ruzivo womunhu, uyewo kuburikidza mamwe kudzidza zvepfungwa uye sayenzi vamwe. Vamwe date tinogamuchira somwana, pamwe dzidzo, kana isu anotsanangura miganhu vakadzikama unhu, uye kugona pfungwa "zvakanaka" uye "akaipa." Zvisinei, izvi hazvina kukwana, uye nokuda vakabudirira pakagadzwa vanotaurirana gwara kusangana zvimwe parameters, izvo anotitarisira kuenda, uye vari zvakare dzimwe nguva azoshandiswazve. Somuenzaniso, imwe Japanese, asingazivi mutauro wokuRussia havazokwanisi kuti zvakazara kutaura vanhu Russian chero bedzi hapana chiratidzo-kupindirana kwemuvanzrira wezvirevo nemabviro yavo mashoko hutachiwana hurongwa.

Hwokukurukura: kugona

Pane zvinhu zvinoverengeka unyanzvi kuti zvinobatana kupa munhu anokurukura kugona.

• Kugona kuita munzanga uye mupfungwa maonero zvinhu yokukurukurirana. Pano munhu kugadziridzwa kuti kukurukurirana kuuya, izvozvo Anoongorora sei anogona kuonekwa nokuramba vaya unotaurwa uye ukuwo, kuti vatevedzere zvinoitwa anoverengeka mienzaniso zvichienderana nezvavachazoita.
• Zvirongwa zviri kukurukurirana kwacho. Pano, vanhu vakaedza kushandurira kukurukurirana nenzira yaunoda kwaro kunobva chinangwa kukurukurirana uye ake zvatinoda. Chokwadi, zvinoitwa nokungwarira kuitira kuti kukuvadza munhu interlocutors, ane mugove chiripiripo uye nezvibvumirano.
• kutaurirana zvakanaka. Zvakajeka kuratidzwa mano ichi kunogona kuonekwa zuva iri TV sefa zvakasiyana-siyana purogiramu dzeterevhizheni apo presenter achiitisa munhu Nhaurirano mueni. Kazhinji zvichiita anoda kuwana mhinduro dzemibvunzo iyo shamwari yake havana kuda kutaura, asi nyanzvi kakawanda vachiri kuisa mueni vanotaurirana ezvinhu haagoni kutaura nezvazvo. Dzimwe nguva unogona kusangana unhu ndakasimba kwake uye kupenya sezvo interlocutors kuti wenhau anogona kudzorwa kutaura navo hachifadzi nyaya.

Hwokukurukura: Regulation

Pane mimwe mitemo vari nokudenga nokuti mifananidzo zvose yokukurukurirana uye mamiriro.

• Kushumwa pfungwa zvinofanira kunzwisiswa pakutanga kuna avo anoda kuti kuridza.
• Understanding. Mativi maviri anofanira kuva nechido tinzwisisane uye vanotsvaka zvikuru zvakananga nzira kutaura nzvimbo yavo.
• Chaizvo. Voice mitsara kunge yakarurama uye hazvirevi anoreva zvakawanda.
• Non-kutukana zviratidzo. Unofanirawo kuteerera zvikuru yavo chiso chedu, kushandisa dzimwe nhengo dzomuviri uye intonation, izvo zvinofanira dzinoenderana ruzivo akashuma.

Saka, vachitevera mitemo nyore izvi kuchaita hwokukurukura, uye kutaurirana chichava nzira kubvisa mupfungwa zvipingamupinyi pakati vanhu.