Kusafara - hachisi chirwere!

Kusafara ... Chii? Izvi mamiriro hwokusagutsikana kuti kunoitika apo asiri zvaidiwa kuti zvinotarisirwa uye chaiwoiwo, kureva munzira kuenda kutsvakwa chinangwa pane zvimwe sezvisingakundiki chipingamupinyi, iyo inosvitsa munhu simba ruzivo.

Vapererwa murume anowana manzwiro ake kana kuburikidza utsinye kutaurirwa vamwe, kana kurega uye yakavharwa, blames pachake.

Kudzidza Chiitiko kuti vaiita nyanzvi dzakadai Simon, Maslow, Freud, behaviorists zhinji. Chakapiwa kune tsanangudzo nezvinodiwa kuzivikanwa uye zvinotarisirwa chokuita navo. Vanodei zvoutachiona, zvemagariro, akanaka (pakunamata). Kana munhu asingagoni ukasangana kudiwa, ane pfungwa mupfungwa, iyo kuvhiringidzika. Nemamwe mashoko, mwoyo - zviri mupfungwa.

migumisiro

Kusafara - ari chikungiso kuti pakatanga kurwisana. Zvinokukuvadza kutaurirwa mumwe munhu kana chinhu (vanhu vakadaro vari nokupwanya, nokuputsanya). Nemishonga munhu, achikwanisa kuongorora mamiriro ezvinhu uye kuzvidzora, edza kushandisa kwokunze zvakatipoteredza uye simba raro zvemukati kuti kuwana zvakanakisisa kusarudza kubva ezvinhu. Mukupesana, munhu haagoni kuzvidzora, panguva kukangaidzika zvinhu anova zvavasingagoni, anorasikirwa kuzvidzora, kutsamwa, zvinonyadzisa, kutuka, anogona kushandisa mumuviri simba.

Dzimwe nguva munhu ikasakendenga ezvinhu kusiya. Kenya hakuratidzwi yakazarukira uye zvaizopedza mupfungwa zvipingamupinyi, zvakadai sublimation (utsinye - mitambo pabonde - okugadzira zvinhu); zvokufungidzira (hope, kurota nyika); rationalization (rezvedzidzo kururamiswa nokuda maitiro ake). Mune zvimwe zviitiko, munhu anotanga kubva atanga, kureva zvakaoma, haungambofari basa unotsiva nyore. Kuda kutamba kunoitika apo munhu zvishwe unmet zvinangwa, izvo zvichaguma zvakakwana kuoma mabasa (handigoni kufunga zvimwe, haagoni kuita chinhu).

Kukonzera kushushikana

Interpersonal ukama:

- Relationships mumhuri (matambudziko mumhuri, mari, vana).

- Relationships kubasa (mismatch basa aishanda kuwana mubayiro kunotungamirira kundigumbura Vakuru, vatinoshanda navo, etc.).

- zvepabonde (excitation haawani nzira yokubudisa, kubuda).

Kusafara - a wakapona mamiriro ezvinhu. It kunokonzera vamwe maitiro:

- kuparadza uye hasha;

- nokusakendenga;

- ya excitation;

- munhu wakaiswa maitiro (stereotypy);

- Regression.

Kukangaidzika. mabatiro

Kusafara - hachisi chirwere, uye haugoni apora. Kuti tinzwisise mamiriro ezvinhu, izvo zvakaita kuti kusagutsikana, mwoyo, akoromoke tariro, tinofanira kukwanisa tizviongorore. Vanamukoti rayira "Mupumburu kuburikidza" mamiriro ezvinhu shure sezvinoita firimu, uye edza kufungidzira zvose zviitiko neimwe nzira, kuti ndechekuti mufananidzo yakasiyana uine nemagumo. Zvakafanira kuti mangwanani mbudo kubva mamiriro kukangaidzika.

In pabonde, kufufutirwa kunogona kutungamirira neurotic zvinetso, hope, chemaneka, dzepabonde dysfunction. Kana nguva asingadi kuenda kwepfungwa kana nyanzvi yokurapa pfungwa, pangava migumisiro, kusvikira kusabetsera nevanhu uye zvepabonde pasava noushamwari vakadzi. At vakawanda vakaroorana kurambana.

Kuti akunde mamiriro kukangaidzika zvinokosha kuva nemishonga, kukwanisa kuongorora mamiriro ezvinhu uye uitore mumwe ruzivo uye kwete nesitiroko wematambudziko.