Matchmaking: tsika uye netsika

In upenyu hwevanhu pane nguva kuti zvinonyanya kukosha kwaari. Mumwe wavo akaroora. Kukosha chiitiko ichi unoratidza chokwadi kuti iye vari kutanga kare kugadzirira pamberi muganhu zuva. Nokufamba kare nezvokuvapo kupfungwa yokuroora muRussia kwaiva tsika zhinji chokuita neramangwana sangano yomuchato.

Panyaya iyi zvinofanira pachena tsika dzakadai matchmaking, tsika dzomuShoko dzakakurumbira mutsika. Chokwadi ndechokuti pamberi kutapwa remangwana kuwanana kazhinji kuvimba kwete chete pane yakawiriranwa manzwiro, asi kubva chisarudzo vabereki mwenga nomurume, kuti pachavo. Yokudanana Kupira vakabatsira ichi. Kazhinji, akashanda rinokosha mabasa. Achibatsirwa nehama vomusikana vari nezvokudzokera pamusoro chinangwa zvingakanganisa mudzimai kumuroora. Uyezve, vabereki vane mukana mwenga aifanira kana kubvuma kana kuramba matchmakers. Uyezve, tsika matchmaking akamutangira paruzhinji chiziviso mhuri mbiri chinangwa mukawanana pachavo.

Tsika yakanga rwaiitwa kazhinji sezvinotevera. Kugovera matchmaking, tsika akarayira jaya wokutanga kuudza vabereki vavo pamusoro kuda kuroora musikana aida. Pasina kutsvaka kwavo mvumo, aisagona kuroorwa. Ipapo murume aifanira kutumira kumba kwake mudzimai matchmakers, inova hama gono chikomba, uye nguva dzose nechekare kuroorana. Kazhinji, basa iri kuridzwa ne baba, amai, kana munin'ina GODFATHER uye sekuru kana vakura. Zvisinei, dzimwe nguva apo aida matchmaking, tsika akabvumira kutora chikamu kwevakadzi, Somuenzaniso, godmother kana tete. Pakupedzisira, muna Russia akarwawo basa renyanzvi nhingi nanhingi vanokodzerana kana matchmakers, nyanzvi muzera michato uye kupenda chiremerera vatengi ayo munzira dzose. Dzimwe simba vabereki chikomba vakaenda kure kuti vakasarudza mwenga mwanakomana wake ramangwana, hakusi kufarira kwake mafungiro. Nzira apo tichifunga musarudzo vakanga zvakanaka uye munzanga zviri vakadzi mhuri.

Kamwe kusarudza kwaitwa, kuti matchmakers zvakapfeka zvakanaka uye pamusoro yakanakisisa mabhiza akatumirwa zvakananga sutu pachayo. Customs pamusoro rwendo urwu zvikuru kuzviomesera. Saka, nzira inoenda kumba mwenga aifanira kuva pane yokupoterera. Uyezve, nenzira matchmakers, kana zvichibvira, haafaniri kurega chero kuzotaura munhu. Panguva iyoyowo, maererano nevakawanda, yakanakisisa nguva yokuti matchmaking mhemberero kunoitika pashure pokunyura kwezuva. Panyaya iyi, mukana wokuti munhu aigona jinx chiitiko chacho akanga aderedzwa kushoma.

Kupinda mumba vabereki romwenga, shamwari unofanira kugara kukurairisai zvakachengeterwa nzvimbo iyi, iyo pakarepo akaratidza wehondo chinangwa kushanya. Zvisinei, Kutama pakarepo yakaendeswa kune chaizvo matchmaking. Kuti mutange kukurukurirana ekunze, chirimwa, nezvimwewo, chete ipapo shandisa zvahungava hwakaita zvakavimbika akasarudzwa muenzi vavariro. Panyaya iyi, zvinogona mwenga akadana isina, Somuenzaniso, "pakati pasina", "huku", "chinokosha" nomuroori azvaitwa "muvhimi", "jongwe", "mushambadzi". Pakupedzisira, hondo vakaratidza matchmakers kuonga mukuru rukudzo uye aida kuenda tafura, yakanga kare kuitwa uye yakananga hurukuro pamusoro muchato. inzwi Yokusarudza muchibvumirana kana kushorwa kuti muchato zvaiva baba vomusikana. In kusavapo ake - mukoma wake kana mai. Kutungamirira nhaurirano, nemadzitezvara, kune rumwe rutivi, kuedza kufungidzira chikomba zvakanaka chimiro, uye pane dzimwe - kuedza kudzidza zvose zvinogoneka pamusoro mwenga. The musikana mukufamba Nhaurirano dzakadaro zvaidiwa nguva nenguva kuoneka mumba, achidira kunwa uye kuratidza kubvisa dzavo zvokupfeka yakaisvonaka uye akapfuma. Izvi zvakapa mukana ndigonyatsoona matchmakers mwenga kutevera maitiro ake.

Kazhinji, kubva pakutanga muchato haana kubvumirana. Musoro wemhuri Zvaizoda kumbomira kumirira, hazvingabatsiri zvikuru zvinobetsera kupa chero mumwe chikomba, uyewo razuznavaya, akavapindurawo, atova kuwanika munhu anopikisa. Zvino zvakaitika kuti matchmakers kunongedzera pachikumbaridzo. Panyaya iyi vaeni achibva zvakadaro ungracious wehondo akavhara musuo kumusha. Chiito ichi akaitirwa uvharidzire harmlessly kubva yaisazoraramika mudzimba uye kudzivirira kufambira kuroora mwanasikana vane nharo. Kana, pashure vabereki rokutanga matchmaking mwenga vakanga vaisandishora muchato, mu-mitemo pamusoro nguva ikasvika kechipiri. Pakanga atova chaizvo kukurukura bhizimisi zvikurukuru vanonzi "Mutsara kupinda" rudzi kumumvuri yazvino muchato kondirakiti. It iroro chibvumirano womuchato ramangwana, chakaita marii, nhamba vakakokwa, mwenga aizomuroora , etc.

Kana mativi vakabvumirana pamusoro zvose, iye akapfuura wakanyengwa hangachepfu, waimira sezvo mhando vimbiso ukama hwavo ramangwana. Swat ndava wakaputirwa chingwa hangachepfu, iyo zvino yakanga hwakaratidza yose musha sechiratidzo abudirire mugumisiro. Panguva iyoyowo iye yekufambidzana tsika kwakapera. Zvino mhuri ramangwana kuwanana aigona mberi rinotevera mumatanho wokugadzirira muchato.

Sezvaunogona kuona, nhumbi mwenga kuti tsika yaidzorwa zvakawanda. All tsika chokuita nacho, mune takanyatsoomerera kwenguva refu, kunyanya mu murimi mudiki mumhuri. Panguva ropafadzo strata wokuRussia vanhu tsika akafa akabuda mashoko nokukurumidza, zvibatane nezvavatorwa mapatani yokuzvibata.