Musikana: kuziva uye kupukunyutsa

It vagara vakadzi haisi kushamiswa nokuvapo ichi mhando yevanhu se "musikana." Uye munguva ichangopfuura akasimba pabonde nevanhu kuti kuwa pasi kupatsanura ichi, zvinova zvakawanda. Nei izvi zvichiitika, tsanangura pachena hapana anogona, asi chii infantilism mumwanakomana wake mhosva mai vake - icho zvazvisingarambiki chokwadi. Kunyanya munyoro "vakamutswa" sonnies pautsva mummies, vasina murume. Saka ivo "kusuduruka" yangu rudo zvose uye kunyanya kutarisira mwana.

Vakadzi ava vari kupfekwa nevana vavo, kufanana huku uye zai: chikafu, mvura, dzinovaraidza hembe, andapeni uye masokisi kugeza, kuisa kurara uye vaimbe lullaby. Uye zvose kusanganiswa syusyukanem, pasinei nokuti mwana kare kubva dzakabuda makore mashanu uye akava zvizere pabonde akura, yakazvimirira murume. Asi ndizvo here rakazvimirira kana amai kwose kwose anodzora here? "Regai kuenda ikoko, kuti varege kuita shamwari, regai kuita chinhu ichi ..." uye kazhinji anouya zvokuti amai anotonga mwanakomana wake muduku kudzidza uye ani kuroora. Uye kana kuroora ...

Kunyange kana munhu musikana uye ngavawane anofunga mhuri yake, amai vamwe vachiri haangakufukidziyi. Kunyanya kana zviri zvinopesana zvarinodzidzisa, kwete akaroora musikana, akanga asarudza iye. Pashure pezvose, sei kuti kuva? Iye akamutsa mukomana wake, wakamutswa, nokurerwa uye holila, nousiku kwete vavete, uye pano kuuya vamwe "coquette" uye akabvisa pfuma. Asi chii pamusoro girazi remvura akwegura? Uye kutanga zvakavanzika (uye dzimwe nguva akazaruka) hondo mwanasikana, uyo anogeza ndiro haisi zvakadaro, hembe hachifanani shamhu uye, vose zvavo, haadi mwanakomana wake. Nekuti chaizvo chete amai vangu vanogona rudo. Uye iye zvishoma nezvishoma anotanga kuchinja wake makore okuva mbudzana mukadzi Kusiyana.

Murume, Chokwadi, pakutanga akaramba, asi nokukurumidza anowana sei zvakanaka aiva Amai, uye kuenzanisa pamwe mai mukadzi wake haana kutora nguva kumirira. Mumwe mukadzi ane murume - mumwe musikana, kuti kana kutora chibhakera uye zvichava nani vamwene (kureva, pfungwa, hazvibviri kubva nemaonero nomukwanyina) kana kuti pakudimurisa kurambana.

Chechipiri, zvinosuruvarisa zvinoitika kakawanda nokuti chero mukadzi vakadzikama vangada kutarisira zvose hwake ekuvarera akura murume, vasingakwanisi kunyange kuwana zvokudya mufiriji, tisingatauri rubatsiro pamwe epamba?

Naizvozvo, kana musingadi kuti vasunge hwavo munhu uyo shoko amai - chokwadi chikuru, zvinokosha kudzidza kuziva ayo kunyange vasati zavyazhutsya ukama zvakakura. Unogona kuita izvi dzimwe nguva zvakananga, dzimwe nguva - mushure mechinguva, nekuti vanogona ikozvino infantile varume vachizvishandura vachizviita hwakavimbika uye chivimbo. Saka kana itsva shamwari yako - a musikana, nezviratidzo ichava zvinotevera:

• Iyewo kazhinji uye nounyoro kukuru inotaura rake Amai (Amai, mamulenku, mai, etc.) uye anogona kugumbuka uye kunyange hasha mubvunzo wako kupfuura mhosva pamusoro noukama dzaro amai.
• Kugara anodana mai vake uye anokuudza apo iri, uyo uye chii nguva inouya kumba.
• It achitsvaka "anoratidza" mai vako nekukurumidza, kuitira kuti, iri nyaya kusatenderwa, usapedza zvakawanda pamusoro pako imwe nguva.
• Kupfeka uye combed shata nokuti amai vake zvikuru.
• Anokoshesa vamwe masokisi, Scarves uye Sweaters pamwe poro (uye akapfeka navo, kunyange kana Vanochengetwa kubva pamazuva chikoro), nekuti mai vangu dzakarukwa kana watengwa.
• Zviri kununura kokupedzisira kuti musikana kuti kumuroora kana chete pashure pomuchato achaita basa rakafanana saizvozvo sezvo kuti mubereki wake waaida.
• Hazvina kuita anongoda hapana nesimba kuhwina iwe, nekuti iye priori vamwe kuti anokodzerwa chete musikana uyo achatora nokuuchengeta pamwe chete kushingaira sezvo amai. Kana mukasadaro, ipapo ichava mudzimai akaipa uye saka haakodzeri rwendo kuenda muresitorendi (vakomana vakanaka pokudya pamba), maruva (vanopiwa chete mai musi March 8) uye zvipo (zvipo zvavo chete mai muchimiro Sweaters pamwe poro ).