Ndingaratidza sei rudo rwangu mukomana ... mubvunzo kana mirayiridzo?

Mumwe, kana kuverenga rokuremekedza sokuti mubvunzo yakanyorerwa kuti musikana, zvakanaka, pano ndakaverenga wake "murume", saka pamwe mumwe achava mwoyo rirege kuti yakarurama uye nzwisisika mirayiridzo, chii chinofanira kuita kuti musikana kuratidza ake ndinoda mukomana. Ndakaverenga iyi nzira, uye saka ini ruregerero kune avo vane hwezuva nezuva kuziva, nyota zvesayenzi kana nyanzvi kukura zvinodiwa kuramba unmet. Tora ndyaringo kumbofungisisa mubvunzo, izvo tichaedza kunzwisisa.

Kana pane imwe nzira ... kuriverenga zvose: vakomana nevasikana, nekuti chii, pfungwa, kuda kwake uchapupu nzira musiyano munhu, munoona ... The mubvunzo haisi kutaura.

Kubva ino, ndakafunga, uyu mubvunzo kuti munhu zvevakomana kana chimwe chinhu rondedzero, isina mhinduro, iro chete kushandiswa kureva nyaya yokukurukurirana - sei kuratidza rudo ... Kana pamwe munhu anoda kuwana danho nedanho mirayiridzo ...

Saka takaronga kuti dzimwe nguva chinonyanya kukosha mibvunzo pachavo kuedza kuvanza shure maturo uye asingauyi atambudzwe masirogani uye trite cliches. Nei izvi zvichiitika? Handifungi munhu achakwanisa kupindura mubvunzo uyu, uye harisi chete kushaya njere kana ruzivo. In kwangu, nyaya iri dambudziko pacharo, ndeye muchikwata iwayo kuti iko vasabatwa kwayo kana Pfungwa vanotozvikuvadza kukonzera yakakura nhamba mibvunzo. Saka, sei kuratidza rudo rwenyu ... ari mukomana regai akafanana pane chinhu pamutsara uyu chinhu zvakaringana, kuti kushandisa chinhu kutanga dzakadai revanoshamwaridzana rudo sechinhu chinonyadzisa?

Zuva nezuva, pamberi pangu pane mazana, dzimwe nguva zviuru zvevechiduku - vadzidzi, akasiyana zvikuru zvavanotyira, pfungwa, manzwiro uye mafungiro zvavo. Ndinoona navo mukirasi, apo maziso avo vakarasika vari vakawanda, mumusangano, apo vose vanogona kuona uye kunzwisisa ukama hwavo peiko, oona kutsvodana paakanga agere pachigaro hwindo sill uye tafura mudzidzi café. Ndinogona kuona uye kunzwisisa sei chine ukama, rinonzi rudo, aripo mune vanhu ava. Uye itai vose pane imwe nguva mune ukama, nehanya chete kuti aratidze rudo rwenyu kana kutsvaka nzira kuratidza izvi? Ndinofunga kuti anogona kuva kakawanda uye nokushingaira vanoedza kuratidza kwemasvomhu theorems, unogona kuratidza chinhu mudare ... asi zvino, sezvo kazhinji rinoshandisirwa nzvimbo aya?

Pane mumwe mubvunzo, asi zvakadini nguva kuzviratidza? Mumwe kubva guru akati kuti kwoupenyu hwose, zvichida, asi ipapo mubvunzo pacharo anova maturo, nekuti uchapupu hworudo anova zvinoreva upenyu. Uye pano uye kukumbira chinhu chakatodzana mhinduro: kuwana uchapupu hworudo, iwe chete kurarama uyu wamunoda kuzviratidza.

Somuenzaniso, kuziva sei kuratidza mukomana rudo rwake, anofanira kutanga zvawo. Zvichida unonakidza gangaidzo, asi hazvisi nyore pfungwa, zviri zvakanaka makasimbiswa uye kutendiswa. Sei ndichiti? Uye nekuti kufunga chii chinofanira kuputsa kana kukunda uchapupu ichi? Mark Antony uye Kesari, achiratidza rudo rwake nokuda Cleopatra, makore akawanda akatuma zviuru vanhu vafe vari perennial muhondo pakati kuRoma uye neIjipiti, zvakaipa uye mercantile ano musana wakakombama Talleyrand akaratidza rudo rwake "kutamira" miganhu marudzi ose muna Napoleonic Europe, kwete kukanganwa kuti muzadze chikwama chake uye kune zvakawanda mienzaniso yakawanda se "uchapupu" izvi. Zvokuita, sei kuratidza mukomana rudo rwake, ano, vechiduku nomukomana, uyo asati asvika mukurumbira uye pfuma Kesari Talleyrand? Ndinofunga, pakutanga kwezvose, regai kunyange kufunga nezvazvo. Unongofanira rudo - mashoko, tinofanira kuva nourombo - zvechokwadi, zvinokosha kuti kushumira - vasingazvidzori Kuderedzwa kwakadini uye servility, uye ipapo uchanzwisisa zvino - tenda, ipapo - kuzvitsigira!

I tarisa vadzidzi vangu - uye nechokwadi zvakasiyana, asi anogona, uye kuratidza, uye rudo, uye nani pane avo vasingakwanisi kuratidza sezvamakaudzwa nomukurumbira dzidziso. meso avo, meso anofara uye kunyemwerera, kutsvoda paaitiza, dzimwe nhengo dzomuviri zvikuru anokunyengedzera hanya ari kutaura nezvazvo.

Uye vose, kupindura mubvunzo uyu (kana mubvunzo), zviri nani kuzoumba neizvi kwayo, unogona kuwana mamwe yakarurama uye ndiyo mhinduro anoshanda kumubvunzo kuratidza sei rudo rwangu mukomana. Kana iwe unoziva sei iwe kunge kukuvengai, ivo ikava pariah, chidhori zvakaipa uye mutevedzeri, uye ipapo kuwana mhinduro iri Musoro nyaya.

Rudo haruna nharo ... uye unprovable rudo mose!