Sei wean mwana kuruma ake nezvipikiri?

  Kwete sezvisingakuvadzi Pakutanga, izvi hazvina kunyanya muropa, uye hunhu kwayo, Ungangove, riri kuwedzera pamwero yomunyika mwoyo. Chero zvazvingava, kana uchifarira kaona kazhinji - yava nguva yokufunga sei wean mwana kuruma ake nezvipikiri? Vana, kusurukirwa sezvo ainge ava zvipikiri (kuwedzera ichi angatanga nguva kunanzva miromo yako kana munwe anomwa, etc.) chaizvoizvo saka edza kudzikamisa pachako. Kana akaona zvakafanana vana vasina kumboziva chero mamiriro ezvinhu anokangaidza, pasina kana chikonzero chakajeka - yava nguva kuona wepfungwa, sezvo zvichiita kuti kusuwa kutanga pokumuka netsinga vana.

Izvi hazvigoni atasve uye kutarisira kuti zvose zvichapfuura woga. Kukurumidza chiito uye achiedza wean mwana kuruma ake nezvipikiri sezvo kutsanya sezvinobvira. Munzirai - napo mhaka, zera, uye zvimwe zvirwere zvinokosha. Chinhu chikuru - chero zvazvingava, regai vakatuka mwana uye zvakatonyanya kudaro, regai rova ake. Zvikasadaro, tsika inogona yakawedzera, uye aibata zvichataurirana refu uye zvakaoma zvikuru.

Kakawanda, maererano nenhamba, pane akafanana dambudziko kuvana kubvira 3 years, hafu yavana havagoni kumusiya ari kuyaruka, mune dzimwe inoramba kunyange pavanokura. Muitiro uyu hazvirevi kukuvadza utano Zvisinei, kunze aesthetic kuipa, pane mukana vamwe zvirwere uye kuzvimba periungual hukawanika. Ndokusaka tichifanira kusarudza sei kuti wean mwana kuruma ake nezvipikiri. Pamwe ichi, vana vane dambudziko iri kazhinji mupfungwa simbi kuti kusanyatsozviremekedza.

Kubva yezvokurapa nemaonero, Onychophagia (zita zvesayinzi chipikiri dzichiruma) anotanga kuoneka muvana vane mwoyo ezvinhu uye, somugumisiro mupfungwa. The riwedzere kungava nokurambana kwevabereki, kukakavara mhuri kana kunetsana mamiriro ezvinhu nevezera ravo, uye chero chikonzero kuti munhu mukuru angasaona mwana kunogona kureva idambudziko chairo. Uyezve, vatatu-murume aiwanzotuma kukireshi, saka anotanga kunetseka kuparadzaniswa mai vake. Kubva dzidziso Sigmund Freud chinoreva kuti kunzwa kusachengeteka angamuka ari mwana somugumisiro kumanikidzwa arumurwa kwaari pacifier kana arumurwa kubva pazamu panguva yakanyanya mangwanani zera. Kuyeuka zvinoshamisa kunzwa kana zvakadaro panokwanisika amai vangu mumaoko ake apo zvokudya mwana uye kuedza kudzikamisa ndiri kushushikana kubva vaitirwa "kusuwa" ake, vachibata saizvozvo. Sei wean mwana dzichiruma ake nzara, tsika yakanga usatsungirira pakupedzisira iye?

Mwana haafaniri kuva kutambura nokushayiwa kuteerera, zvinokosha kazhinji caressing uye vachimbundirana - rwaamai kumbundira kunyatsoyananisira zvishamiso. kunyange kuyaruka Maererano vanachiremba, kutambura kana havana akabata vabereki kanenge masere pazuva. Vana vanofanira kunzwa kubatwa, ndobva kwavo mwero uye norunyararo. Uye hazvina kuoma, kunyanya saka regai havataurirani nevana vavo, anouya kwavari chivimbo kuti vanodiwa, ivo zvinodiwa, uye zvinokosha zvikuru kuti kukura munhu! Uyu rakanakisisa chokudzivirira chishandiso uye kuvimbisa kuti remangwana havazofaniri kutsvaka mhinduro yomubvunzo wokuti: "? Sei wean mwana kuruma ake nezvipikiri".

Pakamuka dambudziko - nayo chete zvinofanira kubviswa yekare kare yemagwaro. First unofanira kuziva, pamusoro zvikonzero kuti pane ye obkusyvaniya marigolds. Kuti aite izvi, tarisa mwana, zvichida, saka anobatsira kusagadzikana Makakatanwa kana nyongano kana kutya chinhu, kana pamwe anonzwa pfungwa kusachengeteka mu mano avo. Tadzidza chikonzero, danho rokutanga iri kutaura mwana wako, muudze nezvemigumisiro muitiro. Zvisinei, zvinofanira kucherechedzwa uye kuti kazhinji vana hazviguti kudzora, havana kubudirira pachayo.

Sei wean mwana kuruma ake nezvipikiri? kwepfungwa zano

• Pamwechete nyanzvi kubatsira mwana wako kutsungirira tsika yakaipa, hazvina zvinobvisa pairi asingazvidzi, uye kukurukura zvakanaka-Ichiseka.
• Achabvisa nomukana kunonoka kukura mwana, ndichishanyira wepfungwa.
• The "dzinonetsa" nguva, tora mwana achiita mutsva toyi, nokuomesa, zvihwitsi, etc. Ita imwe mhando "dzvuku herring."
• Kuisa mwana hope, regai kuva simbe uye kumuita zvinyoronyoro masaja, zvakare, ndiyo kuonana kubatwa pamwe kuzvivaraidza kuti zvinofadza mashoko. Rumbidza mwana wako, ndiudzei sei munomuda, chakanga zvinoshamisa uye nemamwe.
• Mutsanangurire kuti uri kudivi rake, kuti pamwe iwe vakasungwa kubvunza, zvisinei kuoma sei zvakanga zvakakodzera. Chete pfungwa, rudo mwana, runyararo uye kuwirirana mumhuri, uye nenguva chiito kungakubatsira kukunda tsika iyi.