Kuzvipira, Psychology
Chiedza Somunhu Unhu
Kutendeseka sehutano hwemunhu chigadziro chekutenda chimwe chinhu nyore nyore kana muhupo hweuchapupu husingaoneki.
Mukoti wewawawa akabatanidzwa musango mukadzi wekare akare, akagara pamhenga uye achidya kudya kwechingwa akaunganidza raspberries. Mushure mekunge vachinjana mitsara ye-in-duty, akabvunza kuti: "Mai vangu, munoita here kuti murasike?" Zvichida zvichikubatsira kubuda mumugwagwa? - Ndinokutendai, muzukuru. Kutarisira iwe. Mukuonga kwekutarisira kwako, ini ndichazadzisa chimwe chezvido zvako zvitatu, iwe chete unofanira kutarisana neni nerudo. Muwa mushroom, achikunda kukunyangadza nekunyangadza, akazadzisa chikumbiro chake akati: "Chido changu chokutanga ndechokuti munhu ave akapfuma kwazvo panyika." "Zvakanaka, mudiwa wangu," mukadzi wechidiki mumbled. Chido chechipiri ndechekusafa. "Zvichaitwa," mhandara ichangobva kuitika yakashandura muchitsidzo. - Chido chechitatu - Ndinoda kuva mutungamiriri wenyika dzose, pasi rose - Uye izvi hazvisi dambudziko. Rega ndikungojekesa, hausi iwe muduku kumutungamiriri wenyika here? "Ndakanga ndatova nemakore makumi maviri nemaviri," muhowe akazvitaura achizvikudza ndokutora mamiriro aLenin, uyo akataura mumotokari yakadzivirirwa nehurukuro. "Makumi makumi maviri namashanu?" - mukadzi akare akashamisika, - ini makore makumi maviri nemashanu ndiri mumatano ose haana kutenda ...
Nzira yekutenderera zvinhu zvose zvisingazivi ndeye kadhi yemakadhi. Upenzi huine masks mazhinji - chimwe chezvinyengeri. Kufanana nemwana asinganzwisisiki, anodzima uye anotora chokwadi zvose zvaanonzwa uye zvaanoona. Asi mwana wacho ane hanya mupfungwa padanho rekukudziridza, vanun'una nevanamainini vanokanganisa vakanaka zvakanaka neizvi - nzira yekuumba pfungwa yakaguma semakore makumi maviri nemashanu muvarume uye pamakore gumi nemasere muvakadzi. Chii chinokonzera kuti vave antipode yaTomasi Uyo Asingatendi?
Chiedza ndiko husimbe hwepfungwa kutsvaka chokwadi. Pfungwa dzomunhu asingakanganisi haadi kuenzanisa, kuongorora, kuenzanisa, kusahadzika, uye kwete nokuti haikwanise, asi nokuti yakasviba. Asi kana isingadzorwiki kuti irege kupinda mumashoko anouya, uye munhu wacho nguva inotevera anozviita zvakakurumidza, uye kazhinji kazhinji, pasina tsika. Mamiriro acho akafanana nechikonzero chechiito chezvivi. Kwenguva yokutanga yaakatengesa murume wake - aitambudzwa nehana yake, kuti akavhuna mutsara, Rubicon yakapfuura. Kwechipiri, hana yake yakanga yanyarara. Uye kwechitatu ke pfungwa dzakashata dzakati: Ehe! Pane imwe nguva, zvakare, mazhinji akawanda, kakawanda! Muhutano hwakadaro hunozivikanwa hunoumbwa sehutano hwemunhu.
Kutenda ihwo hupofu, kuvimbika kwekusatenda kwekutanga ruzivo rwakasvika kwavari. Vanhu vane ruzivo vanofarira kugamuchira nekusava nehanya nehuwandu hwemashoko, kana ichipesana neyopakutanga. Kuti uone kuti ndeyepi ndeyechokwadi, unoda kusahadzika yekutanga, kuenzanisa uye kuongorora zvinhu. Asi kusagutsikana hakuna maonero. Mhedziso yake ndiyo yekutanga ruzivo. Zvinotarisirwa kuti denga rakawira pasi, uye Niagara Falls yakachinja kuva tsime, vasati vatenda kuti vanobvumirana neka feat kuti vaongorore nzvimbo yavo. Basa iri rakaoma nguva zhinji, kana rekodhi rekodzero yekukurumidza kwekuparidzirwa - ruzivo ruchiri - rwakakwira pavhu rakaorera rezvitendero zvaivepo, zvakabatana naye mumweya kana kururamisa mamiriro ake ezvinhu iye zvino.
Somuenzaniso, murume akabatana nomudzimai wake nemunhu ane rudo muine pose izvo hazvina kukonzera zvachose pasina mubvunzo pamusoro pekutengesa. Kuziva kusagadzikana kwake uye kusada kurambana, mudzimai wake, kubva pa "kudzivirirwa", anoti kwaari, achikwevera pamakumbo ake: - Zvakanaka, zvose. Iye zvino mazano asina kunaka, godo rebenzi, kusava nechokwadi kusina maturo kuchatanga. Mune rimwe shoko, sezvinotaurwa mundima iyi: "Mukadzi weAlex vanopenga vanovimba neaidiwa asingaoni. Kunyangwe akave atowa naMadame mubasa rekuzvidzivirira, kuzviruramisa pachake achiedza kuva runyengeri. "
Vanhu vanogunun'una nezvavanoda. Pfungwa yakuchiva inogadzirisa uye inoronga chimwe chinhu chakanga chisisipo zvachose, asi zvinodikanwa kuti zvinofanira kunge chiri. Murume wacho akaparadza mabhokisi matatu eengano pamusoro pokuzvimiririra kwake mune zvemari, basa rakanaka, imba yakaisvonaka, motokari, uye pfungwa yemusikana muduku, asingakanganisiki "anosungira nzeve dzake" uye anoisa mufananidzo wemufaro wake usina makore. Kwapera zvishoma zvinoshanduka kuti ndiye baba vevana vaviri uye vanoshanda semutyairi kune rumwe rutivi rwemunhu. Chiedza, sekuda, hachioni mamiriro chaiwo ezvinhu. Inowanzova mhuka yakaoma yevanhu vanoita zvekudzivirira, vanokanganisa uye vanokwidza, iyo inokandwa uye inobvongodzwa, inokonzerwa uye ichipiswa. Iyo yakakosha yevashandi vane ruzivo, iyo, maererano nevanhu vasingazivi, haisi benzi kunyengera. Chivi - usanyengera.
Sezvo mutemo, vanhu vasina kugadzikana vanotorwa kubva kune vateki. Kuvhiringidzika uye kukanganisa kunounza pamwe kusada kukanganisa mashoko akawanikwa, asi kusiyana nekunyengera kwekunyengedzera kune ushamwari uye rugare. Anotenda mukuita, chiitiko, chokwadi. Haisi mumitemo yake yekuumba chifananidzo uye kumushumira. Kutendeseka ndiko kusarudzwa kwemashoko, iyo isina chido chekushandura iyo kuva ruzivo runobatsira. Uyezve, kusazvibata hakuna chinangwa chekushingaira kuratidza pa "zvigaro" zvokwadi yemashoko akaiswa kwavari. Mufaro zaoret: "Mune nyika inenge ichiri kwenguva yakareba sezvo boka racho riri nani pane" Spartacus "uye richamhanya kurwisana nevateveri veuto kana Dynamo. Kutenda kuchava nekutenda kuti "Spartacus" asina muchengeti wemugove ane chinangwa chezvikwata zvitatu acharova Madrid "Real" uye "Barcelona" muminda yavo uye haazoiti chero kupi zvako kuratidza chokwadi ichi chisingachinji.
Nekutenda, zviitiko zvipi zvingaitika. Murume nemudzimai wake vakatora mawhopu ku-sanatorium, asi murume akauya kugungwa rimwe zuva zvisati zvaitika. Ndakagara pasi, ndikawana kuti pamusika wakanga uripi, apo gungwa raiva. Ndakabva ndaenda kuIndaneti cafe ndikasarudza kutumira tsamba kumudzimai wangu, wandakanga ndatarisira kuuya mangwana. Asi asina kunyatsocherechedza kero, akanganisa imwe tsamba. Zvakaitika kuti akatumira tsamba kune imwe chirikadzi yakanga ichangobva kudzoka kubva kumakuva kwaakaviga murume wake. Chirikadzi iyi yakatarisa mairi maitiro. Paiva nemashoko akawanda okunyaradza, asi kutarisa kwake kwakakwezva nemashoko ane musoro wekuti: "Kumudzimai wangu anodiwa, uyo asati ava neni." Zvimwe gare gare mwanakomana akapinda muimba ndokuona amai vakafa vakafa, zvishoma nezvishoma vachikwira kubva pachigaro. Anotarisa panotarisa uye anoverenga kuti: "Darling! Zvechokwadi, iwe hauna kutarisira kuti ndinogona kuramba ndichikurukura newe kubva pano. Ini ndiri kushamisika kuti pane kateyuta pano. Wakanaka. Yakagadzirirwa, yakazvizivisa iye, yakanyoreswa. Takagadzirira kusangana newe. Iwe uchazvifarira pano. Ndinotarisira! PS Inopisa pano! "
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