Chii chokuita udyire vana

Udyire - ichi ndechimwe kukonzera kunyanya hasha, achizvidzwa, unoedza kumisa kudzora, uyewo hasha anogona kuratidza mwana ose. vanachiremba vakawanda vanoti kuti udyire uyu pamudzi Kazhinji hasha muvana. udyire zvavo kazhinji kunotungamirira kushushikana mupfungwa kuti vabereki, varumudzani, vezera, zvose kuchikoro uye mberi. Zvakakosha kuziva izvi kunetsana maitiro, asi ichi hachisi nguva dzose vabereki vanogona kubata nyore chete kunyanya hasha muvana vavo. Zvinosuruvarisa, chimiro kazhinji kunyange sechinhu mhosva wokunzwa hasha uye anoratidza kudanwa maitiro vana. Kazhinji vanokanganisa nechirwere ADHD, ndiko, nzeve dhefisiti wokusagadzikana nyonganyonga, sezvo kufamba asina kufunga, kuti chokwadi ndechokuti nokuti kuti havafaniri kuwana zvavanoda, uye kana havana kupiwa yavanoda bako. Uyezve, hasha chokuita udyire, unogona kuva kwazvo kuti vana ava vanogona kunyange rokuongorora rebipolar. Pachishandiswa makore anopfuura makumi mana mubasa wakabudirira mabatiro wokunzwa hasha mune vana nevakuru, tinogona zvakachengeteka kutaura kuti udyire anogara zvakakodzera kuti kutanga funga kana uchiedza kunzwisisa chikonzero hasha kusimba mwana wako akadaro, kunyanya chimwe chinoratidza vakaratidzwa simba zvikuru okutuka maitiro uye hasha.

Zvokuita?

Sezvineiwo, pane mamwe matanho kuti iwe unogona kuita kuti dambudziko iri unhu simba mwana wako, uye zviri pamusoro pavo huchakurukurwa. Basa vabereki kunokosha zvikuru kudzivirira vana, mhuri uye tsika nemagariro kunyange yose kubva pernicious simba udyire. Kuti vabudirire Izvi zvakanaka, vabereki vanofanira kushandisa basa mubereki Style, kwete kwose kwose, asi zviri zvikuru chinokuvadza kuzivikanwa maitiro.

udyire pamutemo

Kunyatsoongorora maitiro chinoratidza kukonana chokuita udyire, zvinokosha zvikuru, sezvo vana nevakura vakawanda kuedza vachizvishandura kana kunyange kuzviramba. Nokuti ichi unobatsira iwe zvawanyora, izvo zvinoita kuti tiongorore kuti simba noudyire mwana wako. Pamazita Izvi zvinobva makore makumi mana kunotoda kurapwa ruzivo, uyewo siyana mabhuku nesayenzi.

kunzwisisa dambudziko

Tora Kutarira pfungwa akanyorwa mazita uye kuziva avo kuti zvakakodzera kuti mwana wako. Unogonawo kubvunza mwana wenyu kushanda vakazvimiririra pamwe Donongodzo iyi. Kunzwisisa dambudziko iri munhu ane dzakabudirira chimiro haana paanopfuura nyore, uye mureza paakasangana kuedza achibva noudyire murume - kuramba uyu. Pamazita Izvi zvichabatsira vana kukurira kuramba danho, kunyanya kana vava kukwanisa kukurukura nyaya nevabereki.

Pamazita

• Kwokusaremekedza vabereki.
• Kusaonga.
• A pfungwa yakasimba zvaakanga akamanikidza.
• Kuratidza kudzora kuedza.
• Bad hunhu.
• Achishandisa zvimwe zvinhu sezvo zvepabonde.
• Kusava pachinhu mumhuri uye nevezera.
• Kunwisa Kuratidza hasha, kana chinhu anoenda zvakaipa.
• sloppiness Strong.
• Constant kushandiswa mutauro unonyadzisa.
• Kusavapo rupo, kusada kugoverana.
• Tarisiro aikosha kurapwa vaviri.
• Kumirira otomatiki zvaidiwa zvose zvinodiwa.
• Evanhu.
• Kushandisa dzimwe kuwana zvandinenge.
• Kuvenga yechibairo zvipo.
• Dzinovarambidza kubatanidzwa zera-zvakakodzera makirasi.
• Kusada kuita kuzobvunza zvinodiwa nevamwe.
• Vanozvitutumadza uye vanozvikudza maitiro.
• Mufambiro "munhu wakabirwa mwana".
• Ndakamira chikumbiro kuti zvose zvakanga sezvaakandiudza zvaanoshaiwa.
• Kusakwanisa zvinodiwa nevamwe.
• Kuramba kuita mabasa epamba.
• Image asingabatsiri, kuwana kutsvakwa (zvakananga, simulating chirwere).
• Kuedza kuderedza kukurukurirana zvose kwavo kuzivikanwa.
• Kurega basa.
• Disclaimer kuchenesa vavatevere.
• Muenzaniso pacharo semunhu aitambura.
• Kuramba kudzidza.
• Panoitika chinhu chakaipa, nguva dzose mhosva nevamwe.
• Kudiwa rusingaperi ichichiyemura.
• Kushaya paruzhinji kufarira vamwe vanhu.
• Inattention vanhu naye kukurukura nevamwe.
• Kutukana kana chisimba pamusoro vemumhuri kana vezera.
• Doro kana kushandisa zvinodhaka.

dambudziko achikura

Kunwisa hasha hwapedyo apo vanhu vemazera nesimba uku hunhu regai kuwana zvavanoda nokukurumidza uye nenzira kuzvida. Tinogona kutaura kuti sei kusimbisa mupfungwa saibva uye zvechihwana netsika.

udyire kudzidza

Pane yakawanda mabhuku nesayenzi kuti anogona kubatsira vabereki, vadzidzisi kunzwisisa zvakakomba kukuvadza anogona konzera Narcissism. Imomo uchawana mazano anokosha pamusoro sei noudyire, uyewo muenzaniso wakajeka sei basa rinokosha mune iyi, kudzidza zvakarurama zvinokosheswa kumba uye kuchikoro, uyewo Modelling unhu hwakadai rupo, kubatana uye kuzvinyima. A 2007 ongororo yakaratidza chete rakakura sei chinetso Narcissism evanhu vemazuva ano. Kudzidza raisanganisira vadzidzi vanopfuura 17.000, uye zvikamu zviviri muzvitatu vavo akanga kuita simba pabvunzo udyire. Zvakange munyaya migumisiro kutsvakurudza kuti mumakore makumi maviri apfuura, padanho udyire yakawedzera 30 muzana. Nyanzvi dzinoti kuti daffodils vari zvikuru vachida nechokwadi kuti vazvibate rinopikisa uye kudzora vamwe, uyewo kuratidza kusavimbika.

Udyire uye zvimwe vairwara nepfungwa

Udyire anoonekwa somunhu mumwe mukuru zvikonzero kukonzera hasha maitiro nevana, izvo pachiitiko ichi kazhinji chirwere oppositional okutuka nyonganyonga (IAD). Kana unogona zvakanaka kuzivikanwa uye akaruramisa mumakore oupenyu mangwanani, zvinokwanisika kudzivirira panowanikwa vamwe abnormalities gare gare muupenyu. Ndokusaka tinyatsonzwisisa padanho noudyire mwana chinhu chinokosha mukurwisa kunyanyisa hasha ari zviitiko kuonekwa dhefisiti wokusagadzikana nyonganyonga, oppositional okutuka wenyonganyonga, mufambiro wenyonganyonga, zvinyamusi dysregulation uye kunyange dambudziko rebipolar.

Mabviro udyire

Common manyuko udyire vari vana:

• Kuitwa nemaune unhu nokuda imhute mafaro zvinobva shure kwake.
• Kushamwaridzana nevaya vane udyire chaizvo.
• A chido chakasimba nechokwadi kuti zvinhu zvose zvakanga sezvo uchida kwamuri.
• A chakasimba kudzora vamwe.
• Kunwisa kushandisa network, uye mameseji.
• Nokuzvitutumadza kufadza vezera.
• Nekusagona yevabereki kukurira mukakavadzane mwana maitiro.
• Education, umo zvose zvinobvumirwa.
• Modelling muenzaniso wevabereki dzoudyire.
• Kunwisa Kupindira wevabereki muupenyu hwemwana.
• Nekusagona of vabereki kudzidzisa mwana wacho yetsika.
• Educational ruzivo inosimudzira udyire.
• Modelling Muenzaniso noudyire vezera.
• Kusada kubayira chinhu nokuda kwevamwe.
• Muropa zviito chokuita kutsvaka pfungwa kunyaradzwa.
• Kuramba ari yetsika uye zvechitendero.