Kazhinji, nharo hama, tinonzwa ari kero kupomerwa udyire uye zvakafanana mhosva pachavo - vabereki, vana, murume, mudzimai. Panguva nharo munhu asingadi kufunga sei mashoko ake ndeechokwadi - pfungwa richawira nemanzwiro. Uye kana iwe kunzwisisa dambudziko kwechando, kudhakwa?
Pfungwa youdyire
Shoko rinobva muchiLatin mudzi chimiro, t. E. "I". Naizvozvo, kana munhu anonzwa shamwari nani, akakodzera - ndiko udyire. Kana anoda pachake mamwe makomborero, hanya, kufunga, rudo, neropafadzo - maitiro akadaro rinoratidzawo kuvapo unhu izvi muchimiro chake. Hama haadi kuudza hanzvadzi yangu inotapira, murume asingadi kubatsira mudzimai wake pamba - kuri udyire. Kubva kuchikoro, tinoziva kuti vane Larra, gamba nyaya Maksima Gorkogo "Old Isergil". Chii iye akawana mukurumbira sezvo asingasaruri?
Kubva Larry kuna Danko
Yeuka Classics! Larra, mwanakomana womukadzi yepasi uye gondo, mambo shiri, aiva akanaka, vanozvikudza kuti kuzvitutumadza, uye aidavira kuti iye anogona kuita zvose: sarudza pachako vasikana kurudzi akanaka, vanoba mombe, impertinent vakuru nemhuri uye kuuraya vedzinza kana vakanga vasingadi kubvuma ukuru hwake . udyire ichi, handiti? The chete vanhu kumubhadhara nokuda kwokuregeredza mitemo nokudenga? Kwete yezve upenyu, kwete - kudzingwa! Kunyange nyika pachayo haina kubvuma rufu rwake kuwana kumativi. Larra paaizooneka vakatongerwa isina kusafa. Pakutanga, gamba akanga kunyange kufara mamiriro ezvinhu aya: zviri udyire akataura naye. Asi emakore apfuura, uye kusurukirwa akatanga nokuyera hunhu Gorky vake. Zvisinei sebyalyubtsem hapana anoda zvakanangana - kuti ndicho chokwadi! Uye chaiyo zvinopesana Larry - mumwe akanaka, Danko. Vanhu aida kupfuura ini, kupfuura upenyu hwake. Uye kunyange kurohwa mwoyo akabvarura kubva pachipfuva chake kwavari. Vose vatambi embody mune pfungwa yokushanda muchimiro wakachena chimiro uye udyire nehanya nevamwe - maviri akatarirana siyana pfungwa dzevanhu.
Tsvaka misiyano
Sei anopikisana? Vazhinji! upenyu zvoudyire pachavo, kuita chinhu nokuda kwayo kwangu. Uye kunyange kana ukabatsira vamwe, haina kusafarira. Azvipfumise - inorayirwa zviito zvake zvose. Inguva axiom serinokosha unogona kuchinja chinhu. Nekuti nehanya nevamwe uye udyire - antonymous pfungwa. Kuzvipira, kuzivikanwa kodzero uye zvinofarirwa nevamwe, chido chokuita chimwe chinhu chakanaka kana kubatsira munhu, asi kune pakukuvadza pachavo - ndivo vanhu vanokwanisa kufanana Danko, "zuva muropa," sezvo achitaura pamusoro gamba nokunyora mabhuku kutsoropodza.
Kubva Dictionary of Life kuvhura dzezvimwe
Zvakanakisisa kukubatsira kunzwisisa zviri udyire, anoreva zvakafanana nokuti shoko. Chokutanga, Narcissism ichi (kureva. E. Self-rudo), udyire (rinenge chete), uye udyire. Vanachiremba kazhinji kutaura kuti murume ano asingadi kushaya kuzvidzora rudo. ivo anotikurudzira kuti tive youdyire? Ngazvisadaro! We dzitsaurire yakawanda nguva achishanda, nekugadzirisa matambudziko ezuva nezuva kana pfupi, mapendekete WHO mhuri, uye zvose izvi chete havana nguva yokuita chinhu chakanaka pachako. Zvino isu vanotsutsumwa pamusoro utano tsika kuneta, kushaya dzakanaka upenyu. Chii mhedziso kunotevera kubva ichi? Love pachako - kwete chinhu chakaipa. The chikuru ndechokuti haina kutora hypertrophied siyana! Asi udyire - kutanga imwe zvakasiyana urongwa, uye zvinofanira kukundwa mavari. Kunyange zvazvo zviri debatable!
Double-unocheka munondo
Nderipi dambudziko iri udyire, izvo tinosangana muupenyu hwezuva nezuva? The duality hwake. Kana taifunga mumwe sebyalyubtsem? Kana ichi "mamwe" kuramba tisazovakumbira dzavo zvinhu - pachavo nguva, manzwiro uye manzwiro, ruzivo, mari, etc. The mubvunzo pamutemo .. Zvino kana munhu anorasira rake kubatsira akapa, saka kutaura, kupfuura runotungamirirwa? Vanachiremba vanodavira kuti chido chokufadza, kuti vagutsikane. Uye dzimwe nguva iye Mupi (anyatsoronga) haakupi pacharo kwomushumo uno. Zvakaratidza kuti huru vavariro mabasa akanaka, uye yakakura, ndiye zvavanoshuva kudongorera maziso vamwe nani kupfuura iwe zvechokwadi? Kana "kukwezvana zvisina kumboitika rupo" haina kuratidzwa, zvinoreva kuti hatidi promotivirovali haina kukonzera nhengo zvido. Izvozvo hazvisi chete "udyire" zvakaipa, asi isu hatisi vatumwa? Anobvumirana nzvimbo iyi zvakaoma paavhareji munhu, nekuti yakadzika pasi, mumwe nomumwe anofunga pachake "akanaka kwazvo". Uye kunzwa ichi - mumwe kuratidzwa Narcissism! Chinogara chichingoitwa dialectic!
"Ini" + "Ini" kana "We"
Sezvo evinces pacharo udyire vari noukama pakati murume nemukadzi? Mubvunzo unofadza zvikuru. Muchidimbu, mhinduro inogona akagadzira saka: "Imi vanoraramira ini, uye ini tichararamawo woga." Kureva, chido kunakirwa zvose kuti shamwari inogona kupa, uye kusada kumudawo. Zvese zviri co-nezvokuvapo peya yakadaro iri kuchengetwa akanyatsorongwa: mumwe anoda - mumwe angozvibvumira rudo. Pano pasina kuenzana, kuenzana. Mumwe nguva dzose zvinoenderana kuti shamwari, kana chokuita zvepabonde zvatinofarira, kusarudza nezvirongo zvemangwanani, zvemasikati uye kudya kwemanheru, kugovera mabasa mhuri, kutenga zvinhu uye zvinhu, zvinhu, zvinhu ... Saka, mune ukama uyu mhando haana zvinoitika yaitsiva munhu "ini" kune mukuru "isu". Kana zvichibvira, bedzi mumwe shamwari mumba iri zvachose negates pacharo, nokusunungura munhu akazvimiririra zvavo, zvavanoda, acharasikirwa unhu hwake. Zvinosiririsa! Hapana nzvimbo Mutsinhirano, ichi zvakaenzana uye kunokwidziridza rudo hwevanhu, hapana mufaro. Uye munguva yemberi, chokwadi, vaviri kana.
Mhuri uye musika ukama
Uye chii chinoitika kana kutapwa Anonangana egoists maviri? tandem kwakadaro kana achitungamirira inonzi urwere pakati pezvinyavada; kana mumwe "vanoda" kungoita kudya mumwe, kana ukama hwavo vachava sechibereko analogue mumusika mhuri. Panyaya iyi, nzvimbo murume nomudzimai zvichachinja zvishoma. Asi kare rave musimboti aiva: "Ndinoda kuita (a) ini kufadza, asi iye (a) iwe haudi" - asi zvino mhuri yekubvuma dzavo rinonzwika zvakasiyana. Zvinoti: "Kana ndikakuudzai kuita zvaunoda, chii chingava danho wenyu shure?" Kana, "Ini Achazviita kana uhuite." Zvino akaisa mberi nehasha noenderana nemamiriro ezvinhu. mienzaniso yakafanana udyire kuitika kazhinji mumba zvimunakire, uye nhungamiro yemberi noukama nezvaro muchato kondirakiti. Hongu, uye muchato, uye makuru, nowenyika kutengeserana.
Kana zvayakanakira nezvayakaipira kutamira mu
Mubhizimisi, pfungwa inokosha yakadai mabhizimisi kuvimbika, chivimbo, kuvimbika, ushamwari. Kana vari rakatakurwa mhuri pamwero, zvose ingasaoneka kuipa sezvo zvichiita sokuti pakutanga kuaona. Chokwadi, mumwe murume nomudzimai vanogona kuva zvakawanda kutaurirana pachine. Zvingaita zvinonyatsorehwa upfumi sezvo pamwe kwavanoita. Anogona kubatsira mumwe munguva dzakaoma, t. To. Prosperity (pazvinhu!) Mumwe nomumwe zvisingabatsiri. Mumamiriro tandem zvakadaro vanhu kunyange vanotanga kugarisana nepfungwa kudziya dzevanhu. Chokwadi, kana kusina kuchinja chaizvo undere, izvo isu ataura.
Hazvo udyire uye anonzwisisa
Mugore Russian mabhuku XIX remakore tinosangana zvakadai zvinonakidza pokuti "zvoudyire Willy-nilly" uye "musoro egoism". Munyori wokutanga - talantlivayshy mutsoropodzi VG Belinsky. Ndizvo sei akataura Evgeniya Onegina uye Grigory Pechorin - Heroes enganonyorwa pamusoro Pushkin uye Lermontov. Chii chinorehwa Belinsky? izwi rake, Akatsanangura murume udyire asina kuzvarwa. Sezvo vakadaro Inova kufurirwa kwezvakatipoteredza ezvinhu. Kazhinji ndiwo vanhu kuti ndiye anokonzera kuti unhu munhu akanga zvachose kuvhiringidzika, chimiro uye zvinoparadzwa mugumo. Zvadaro musi murayiro boomerang - uye munhu anova muparadzi yemberi nevamwe vanhu. Zvakasiyana kana zviine musoro egoism kunobatanidzwa. Pfungwa iyi nezvevanakomana vakawanda munyori-democrat nemagariro nemumiriri N. G. Chernyshevskim uye wakanzi wakarurama yokufungidzira "Chii kuita?" Chii chacho chaizvo: kufunga zvikuru pachavo, kuregeredza mamwe, disadvantageous rinonyanya udyire. Its hatifari haana kuuya kuzobatsira, haana kuvimba munhu. Bvumiranai, zviri upenzi kuti zviise yakadaro chinzvimbo vakatsauka! Nekuti ukama nevamwe zvinofanira kuvakwa nenzira yakadaro kwete nezvinotaurwa zvinofarirwa mumwe murume, uye makuru, kune vamwe vanhu. Somuenzaniso, kana iwe akasvika Datenroku, akarayira zvokudya, vanonakidzwa munhuwi uye kunaka ndiro, uye pedyo nomumwe wenyu muhombodo muromo wake nechido chikuru Escorts vasina evshy munhu, zvemasikati haangakoni kwamuri ramangwana. Asi wakati akaitira varombo, uye iwe uchava zvokudya vanoshayiwa, uye asingauyi akapamba yenyu kudya. Hazvina musoro, handizvo here?
Sezvo imi makaona, udyire, egoism zvakafanana. Uye kwete nguva dzose ndiko kubvisa!