Tinokumbira bhuku reroto: muchato muchirota - zvakanaka kana kwete?

Kutsanangurwa kwezviroto chinhu chinonetsa uye chinokakavadzana. Chimwe chezvinyorwa zvakawanda zvinorondedzera zvinoratidzira kurota nenzira dzakasiyana uye dzimwe nguva zvakasiyana zvachose, ndicho chikonzero chakakosha, kutarisa mubhuku rerota, kuzvitsvaga kune zvaunofunga. Ko kurara kwakakonzera mafungiro akanaka here? Kwakanga kune pfungwa yekuzvidya mwoyo here? Pashure pezvose, sezvazvinowanzoitika nekurota, kunyange chiitiko chakaisvonaka zvakadaro muupenyu hwemunhu sechatochato chinowanzokonzera kushushikana. Vakawanda vanonyanya kutenda vanotenda kuti mukurota, zvinhu zvose zvinoitika nguva dzose, izvo zvinoreva kuti muchato chiratidzo chekutambudzika, asi iwe haufaniri kumhanyira kugumisa.

Somuenzaniso, Vanga akafunga nezvemuchato chiratidzo chakanaka. Kana iwe uchitarisa mubhuku rake rairota, muchato uchange uchishandurwa sangano rinofadza neshamwari. Iyi sangano, zvisinei, inogona kuva inonakidza muupenyu hwako. Imba yemuchato chiratidzo chekuti munguva yemberi iri pedo iwe unofanira kugadzirisa dzimwe nyaya dzinokosha, uye kuvapo kwemuchato wemumwe munhu semushanyi anokosha chiratidzo chokuti shamwari yako yepedyo kana mudikanwa wako asingadi kubatsirwa kwako. Uye haafaniri kuramba urongwa urwu.

Tsanangudzo yakajeka inoratidzirwa neanoti yakakurumbira bhuku duku rorota. Muchato, maererano naye, unofananidzira ... muchato! Kana iwe wakaroorana kana wakaroorwa, kuvapo pamuchato kunoreva kuti mhuri yako ichakurumidza kuva nevana. Imba yemuchato inogonawo kureva upenyu hurefu uye hunofadza hwewanano. Icho hachisi kutamba pamuchato muchiroto hazvina kukodzera. Maererano nebhuku duku reroto, mitambo yakadaro inoreva kusagamuchirana nevakomana vakasiyana-siyana muupenyu chaihwo.

Kana iwe ukakumbira Freud bhuku rairota, chii icho chichato chiri pamusoro, ipapo hauzowaniki kune hukama hunotarisirwa nehukama pakati pepabonde. Zvinoshamisa, asi Freud aidavira kuti yemuchato inhau yakanaka chete, iyo ichangobva kuwana munhu akaona kurota mumuchato. Imba yemuchato hainawo kutakura mashetic load. Maererano naFrud, zvinoreva chipo kana kushamiswa kunonakidza, kumirira munhu munguva yemberi.

Tsanangudzo yakazara yakawanda inopa bhuku raMiller rokurota. Iko unogona kuona zvimwe zvinhu zvisina kunaka, zvinowanzotaurwa nezvechato , zvinoonekwa muhope. Inonyanya kuipa, maererano nebhuku reroto, ndichato, umo vanhu varipo mukuchema. Kushamiswa kwakadaro kusinganzwisisiki pamuchato wavo pachavo kunoratidza hupenyu husina mufaro pamwechete, uye kana zvikaitika pamutambo usina kufanira - hupenyu husina mufaro hwemuwani kana mwenga. Mukuwedzera, bhuku raMiller rokurota rinofunga nezvemuchato chiratidzo chinotyisa kune ruchauya rwendo. Inogona kugumbuka kana kuguma mukurwa kukuru. Kuroorana kwomunhu waunoda nemumwe mukadzi (kana kuti zvimwewo) zvinoreva kutya kusingaiti uye godo.

Zvimwe zvakasiyana-siyana zvevanhu vanoverenga mabhuku zvinotungamirira kune zvimwe zvakashata zvakafanana kufanana pakati pemuchato, unoonekwa mukurota, uye hupenyu hwechokwadi. Kana iwe ukatarisa mubhuku rekurota rekuUukraine, muchato wawakarota pamusoro unogona kukutyisa iwe, nokuti zvinoreva rufu, kurwara nemarudzi ose ematambudziko. Asi kuona chikwata chechato ichi chiratidzo chakanaka, zvichiratidza kuti iwe munguva pfupi uchasangana nemumiriri wevasikana. Kune zvakawanda zvakasiyana siyana kududzirwa kwemuchato unoonekwa muroto, zvinogona kureva zvimwe zviitiko zvakakosha mumagumo enyika, mari yekushandisa mari, nezvimwewo.

Munhu angaita sei kuti asakanganiswa mukusiyana kwakasiyana siyana kwekududzira? Ichokwadi ndechokuti kududzirwa kwehope dzomunhu mumwe nomumwe kune mumwe nomumwe. Chinhu chakanakisisa chaungaita ndechokuwana bhuku rako reroto, kududzirwa kwezviroto, muchato, umo iwe waonekwa sewakakodzera iwe. Zvichida mune ramangwana bhuku rino rorota richakupa tsanangudzo yakarurama yezviroto zvako. Uye usakanganwa kuti kududzirwa, nenzira dzakasiyana siyana, kunobva pane manzwiro awakaita kuti hope dzacho dzionekwe muchiroto.