Communication: pfungwa, tsanangudzo, mifananidzo, kupatsanura uye zvinokosha

Vanhu - hazvina chete zvoutachiona venyama, asiwo magariro unhu. Murume zvakakwana kusangana zvoga, zvakasikwa zvinodiwa. Kuwedzera chido zvokudya, mvura, kurara, kuramba munhu wose mhando anofanira kuziva pachavo vari munzanga. Tsvagai pachako, wako "I" kurasa simba ravo uye unyanzvi kupinda chinhu vanhu vanoda, kuva rinokosha, uye ari kudzoka kugamuchira pamutemo uye pfungwa yokugutsikana pachako. Hazvina kukosha vose vanhu. Kuti kuva kambani, kuti vave nevamwe uye vataure dzavo manzwiro, pfungwa, pfungwa, nevanhu vanoda kutaura. Communications vanowanikwa kwose kwose, kwose vari ichi kana kuti munhu, pasinei bhizimisi kana basa pacharo ariwana nguva dzose zvakakodzera kusangana vanhu, kuti avarayiridze kana, Ukuwo, kushandisa pfungwa dzavo.

Chii kutaurirana?

Zvino mutauro Russian yakawanda chikwereti mashoko matsva. Uye rokuti "kukurukurirana" kwasvika kwatiri kubva rechiLatin rokuti communico, izvo zvinoreva mu Russian "mukuru", "vagari". Panyaya iyi, kazhinji kutaura kuti shoko "kukurukurirana" kwakafanana pakukurukurirana.

Uyu mamiriro ezvinhu apo vaviri kana kupfuura vanhu vakanga vachitaura pamusoro misoro vakajaira mapato vose. Vanogona kubvunza, gakava, kutaura pfungwa dzavo, asi kunobva anogara anogamuchira ruzivo urwu uye ndiye pakatarisana mhinduro iri iyo yokukurukurirana. Concept, mhando yematemu zvakafanira kunzwisisa uye kutaurirana zvakakodzera.

The kupatsanura mamiriro

Communications - pfungwa iri nani yakaoma, asi ine yayo marongerwo. Communication inogona kupatsanurwa muzvikwata 2 guru: kwesangano uye interpersonal. Yokupedzisira ine yakarongwa uye yakajairwa. Mazita subgroups zvinova pachena kuti pane kukurukurirana dziri kunze maererano nemirau, kuruoko intonation, neumwe kuchechi kuri mune chiitiko. Uye kune kurongwa, kureva zviri sei isu kutaurirana nemhuri yako, shamwari, kwete pamusoro anokosha mitemo, uye vanoita muropa uye zvachero.

Kukurukura kweSangano inogona rakakamurwa zvokunze, kuti kuitika pakati sangano pacharo uye akaripoteredza kwezvakatipoteredza, uyewo mudzimba, vari kutora nzvimbo mukati kambani pakati siyana dzakabatana uye nemapazi ehurumende. boka Izviwo, rakakamurwa chinjikira kusangana, kureva, kutaurirana pakati vezvikwata zvakafanana chechetere, uye kutwasuka, pakati Vakuru uye pasi. Saka, kukurukura - pfungwa yaida kwavo chaiyo kusvika uye nokunzwisisa.

Basic mashoko kutaurirana bhora

Basic Dzidziso kukurukura:

1. Culture kutaura - kwakarurama, kushandiswa kwakarurama mutauro zvinhu kuti nhaurirano. Mumwe murume nokuzvidzora pamusoro anoziva uye anonzwisisa sei uye vanofanira kuzvibata pamamiriro ezvinhu, uye worudzii maitiro ndechokungoti isingagamuchiriki.
2. Nomuromo kutaurirana - izvi netsaona kana chinangwa kushandisa kutukana zvakagadzirwa kuti vataurewo zvavanofunga uye kuramba kukurukurirana.
3. Nomuromo maitiro - kushandisa zvimwe nokumukirana mumamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana-siyana (kubasa, neshamwari, mhuri, kuchikoro, etc ...)
4. Speech chiitiko ine zvinhu zviviri: chaiyo mamiriro ezvinhu muupenyu, zvakatipoteredza apo kukurukura, uye pakarepo mutauro pachayo, iro Nhaurirano dzinoitwa.
5. Speech basa - rudzi yoga, nezvezvaiitwawo nezvainoita vanhu achishandisa mutauro.

Saka, kukurukurirana - vanzwisise kuti unosanganisira kutaridza mitauro hurongwa munyaya kupanana ruzivo.

Pfungwa kutaurirana

Kukurukurirana - ndiye multi-faceted, kunzwisisa basa kukura uye pakagadzwa vokukurukura pakati vanhu. Zvinonzi kunotangira kudiwa yose pamwe mabasa, uye kunosanganisirawo kupanana ruzivo iyo imwe nzira yakatanga nekutaurirana kana kunzwisisa.

mhando kutaurirana

Kune 2 marudzi kutaurirana:

1. Cheshoko. chirairo ichi, apo kuonana pakati vanhu kunoitika kuburikidza nemashoko, mitsara. Ndiyo mhando kuti tinoshandisa zuva nezuva, nomuromo kana kunyora tsamba, asi sezvineiwo tinoisa machemero mashoko, uye kwavari kusika rose kunotsausa tichiratidza pfungwa uye pfungwa nomumwe wedu.
2. Nezvaunomuitira. A nzira manzwiro avo ichi mhando kukurukurirana rudzi asiri kutukana zviito akadai nemasaini, chiso chedu, munhu mamiriro, Runako, matauriro, nzvimbo yomugariro uye daro pachinhu rimwe bato uye zvichingodaro. Concept uye mhando vasiri kutaura nokukurukurirana - asangana dzinonakidza nyaya kuongorora. Sezvo nzira dzokukurukura idzi rubatsiro kunzwa interlocutor uye kutora danho guru kwaari.

nzira simba vamwe 'mubishi kukurukurirana

Mukuita kukurukurirana nguva dzose kunoitika involuntary kutonga mumwe interlocutors. Anogona kunyengetedza shamwari yake chinhu, kana Ukuwo, kunyengetedza, kupa mazano kana mhosva chero zvakaipa. Saka, zvesayenzi uye kupa 4 mufashoni dzokupisa nzira vadyidzani pane mumwe:

1. Chirwere - ezvinhu, kana pane involuntary, afenda kwevanhu kuona zvakajeka mupfungwa inoti. Ndiko kana mudiwa wako chaizvoizvo hwacho newe pfungwa dzayo, kunze, hamuchadi kuona chinhu.
2. Zvaungaita - unreasoned, murume chinangwa kuti zvazvinoita interlocutor ake. Kazhinji nzira iyi takawana muzvitoro, apo vanowatengesa chaizvoizvo kuramba ari chigadzirwa yedu, kurondedzera zvayo zvakanaka. Kunyange zvazvo zvakanakira chigadzirwa hapasi kururamiswa.
3. Kunyengetedza - chimiro chiito inobva pakuti ane vachikanda-akakurukurirana nharo kuti awane mvumo kubva munhu anogamuchira ruzivo. Kuti hachisi chinhu shoko, uye akafunga mashoko kuti pave kuitwa mashoko zvakakodzera kwamuri.
4. Tichitevedzera - vakasiyana zano uye utachiona, nzira iyi kuri kuti pane rinoitwa hakusi kugamuchirwa nyore zviri kwokunze zviri mumwe munhu, asi rimwe nzira kuridza zvakaratidza maitiro. Ndizvo tsime iri kuedza kuva imwe nzvimbo, chete kutaura, chete kuita seshamwari yake. Kazhinji maitiro ichi chinowedzera nekodzero dzevanhu uye kutendiswa kwevanhu.

Chinangwa kutaurirana kwacho

Zvinofanira kunzwisiswa, chii yose kutenderera pavanofunga pfungwa kukurukurirana. Kukurukura kwacho ndiko kuchinjana ruzivo. Zvinogona kuitika pakati boka revanhu kana munhu aine naye.

Kana isu kutaura pfungwa kukurukurirana kwacho pamusoro, chinangwa izvi - kuti ibudise zvakafanira mashoko kuitira kuti mumwe munhu vakanzwisisa chii chaiitika. Zvisinei, kushandisa dzimwe majana kutaura hakusi vimbiso kuti mudiwa unonzwisisa uye kugamuchira mashoko.

The zvinokosha zviri kukurukurirana kwacho

Kuti vawane tinzwisisane pakati interlocutors vanofanira kutevera inotevera kubatana yose muitiro.

Kune Links zvina:

1. Ndakaitirwa - uyu ndiye munhu anonzwa uye anoona zvose mashoko zvakananga.
2. Yerera kukurukurirana - kuti, hwaishandiswa pane kuchinjwa zvimwe mashoko.
3. Message - mashoko kuti munhu anoda kuudza interlocutor ake.
4. Sender - munhu zvakananga anotumira uye unounza rworudyi mashoko kusvika nemudiwa.

Saka, pfungwa pakukurukurirana uye kukurukurirana kwacho kunoratidza kuti dzinopindirana zvinhu zvakafanana mamiriro.

The huru misiyano ndivo kutaurirana kubva kutaurirana

Pfungwa pakukurukurirana uye kutaurirana rinoti kuti vava zvakafanana, uye vakawanda vedu regai kusiyanisa navo kukurukurirana. Zvisinei, mashoko aya kwete zvakafanana, vane nhamba kusiyana:

1. Mune kukurukurirana, mukusiyana kune kukurukurirana, kuwedzera ruzivo uye ayo kuongorora rinokosha uye mupfungwa avakaita uye zviri date pachayo.
2. Huru, chikuru kushanda kukurukurirana ndiko kumisa vokukurukura pakati vadiwa, uye panyaya kukurukurirana chikuru chinhu - kuisa uye kusarudza nzira yokukurukurirana, kureva, sarudza yoku kana asiri kutukana achishandisa kutaura.
3. Kukurukurirana - iri mamwemazwi izwi, izvo zvinosanganisira nechivako kwayo, shoko rokuti "kukurukurirana".

mhedziso

In mhedziso, tinofanira kutaura chokwadi kuti kukurukurirana - pfungwa multi-faceted, rinoda kunyatsofungwa uye kudzidza mishumo akakodzera mashoko. Kuziva dzi uye outs vemabhizimisi ichi, unogona kupa mumwe bato mashoko chinodiwa kwauri. Kushandisa majana siyana hwekutaura, non-kutukana nzira yokukurukurirana uye kufungisisa zviri Data uye kunetsa interlocutor, unogona kusika nharaunda wakakwana nokuda kukurukurirana kwacho. Zvakakosha kuyeuka mitemo uye ugare pedyo kuongororerwa kutaurirana panguva mabhizimisi Nhaurirano, uye iwe chokutyira uye kuva pachako uri, zvisina musangano pachedu. Kuchengeta uye kushandisa dzinokosha mitemo kuchaita munhu ushamwari yakanaka uye yakavimbika zvibudirire chesungano.