Mhuri psychotherapy: inobudirira sei?

Kumadokero, psychotherapy yemhuri yava tsika yakajairika kune vakawanda vakaroorana vanoda kuchengetedza imba yavo kwemakore anotevera. Munyika yedu, vashandi vehutano huno havawanzobatwa. Izvi zvinoitika kune zvikonzero zvakawanda. Chokutanga, muitiro wekurarama wevanhu hausi akakwana zvakakwana kubhadhara mabasa akadhura akadaro. Mushure mezvose, havasi vaviri vanogona kukwanisa kupa mari kubva kumabhadharo emhuri kune chiremba wepfungwa. Chechipiri, huwandu hwekusimudzirwa kwehutungamiri huri munyika hunoita kuti mazano evarapi vasaregererwa.

Zvisinei, zvinofanira kuonekwa kuti gore negore mhuri yepfungwa inowedzera kuwanda, uye saka, nokukurumidza mhinduro yakabudirira yematambudziko muwanano ichava yakasarudzwa. Zvechokwadi, vakaroorana mumakakatanwa mazhinji havakwanisi kutarisa mamiriro acho kubva kunze uye kuongorora maitiro avo pachavo. Mumwe mupfungwa wepfungwa achabatsira kunyatsoongorora mamiriro acho ezvinhu uye kupa runyora rwezvirongwa zvekusimudzira hupenyu hwevamwe vanhu vaviri mune ramangwana.

Mukuwedzera, psychotherapy yemhuri haina chinangwa chekusika kutsigira mumhuri, asiwo mune dzidzo yakakodzera yevana. Haisi chakavanzika kune ani zvake muhucheche mwana anonyanya kutsamwa, uye dzimwe nguva asingadzorwiki. Unyanzvi hwehuongorori hunotarisa kuongorora utano hwemwana hwepfungwa, kuongorora hukama nevabereki nekuvandudza nzira dzekuita mumakakatanwa nemamiriro ezvinhu. Semunhu wepfungwa, mhuri inoonekwa seboka revanhu mune imwe chete, uyewo nhengo imwe yemhuri semunhu mumwe oga. Mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma anogona kuenzaniswa nehutano hwezvinhu zvekunze izvo zvisingatauri kuchinja boka iri. Zvisinei, kazhinji zvinetso zvinomuka pakati pevakaroorana zvinotsanangurwa nekuvapo kwezvikwata kana kushambwa kwemvura, yakadzika muhukuru hwehumwe hwevamwe. Sezvo wakaziva chikonzero chikuru, iwe unogona kuchinja zvakanyanya ukama mumhuri.

Munguva pfupi yapfuura, kukoshesa kwakakosha kwave kunowanikwa nehutano hwepfungwa hwemhuri. Inomiririra nzira yakananga kune imwe sero munzanga, umo inofungidzirwa kuti kukanganisa kwakaipa kune imwe yenhengo dzayo kunobata vamwe. Izvo zvisina kunaka zvinowedzera, semugumisiro wehuwandu hwehukama hwehukama hwewanano hunoputsika. Mhuri systemic psychotherapy inobvumira boka iri riri mubvunzo kuti ritsause pfungwa kubva kune zvinhu zvekunze uye kuisa pfungwa pane zvinhu zvinokosha uye zvinokosha, somuenzaniso, kutarisirana uye nekuratidzira rudo.

Sezvo mutemo, kukakavadzana kunotanga kubuda mukati maviri hakusi kugadziriswa, asi kunongororesa. Asi kutsamwa kunobva kune vakaroorana, kunobatanidza nehumwe humwe hutsva, iyo pakuguma inotungamirira kusanzwisisiki zvachose uye kunyange ruvengo. Mhuri yehupfungwa yehutano kwete chete inobatsira pakugadzwa kwehukama hwakanyonganiswa, asi inovatora kusvika kune imwe nhanho, uko kubatsirana kunovepo. Nguva yehutano hwakadaro inofanirwa nehuwandu hwekuregererwa kwemamiriro ezvinhu uye inogona kuve kubva kumavhiki mashoma kusvika kumakore mazhinji.