Taura nevana kunorambidzwa subject: sei vana?

Uye chokwadi, nei dingindira yokuberekwa vana vari mumhuri kazhinji kunorambidzwa? Zvichida vakuru vakananga kunyara dzimwe nguva nhema, uduku yakaoma uye infantilism? Pashure pezvose, kana vakuru regai kuzvimanikidza pfungwa iyi, asi nokufamba kwenguva mubvunzo sei kuti vana, nhunzi iri vakuru vana. Naizvozvo, kugadzirira kuti nomutsa.

Chokwadi, unogona kuita kuti kufarira zvikonzero, akadai sokuti "kuwana makabheji", "kuumbwa kubva bota" kana "kutenga kuchitoro." mhinduro rakajairika ndiyo mashoko vana kuuya shuramurove. Uye kamwe dzakawanda kuongorora kuziva nendumure mubvunzo inotevera unomuka: shuramurove uye apo vanotora?

Nhasi Internet vade hombe ndiyo katuni "How kuti vana makore." Mariri multipliers kuenda mberi. Ivo vanoti vana vayo mhuka nevana, vanhu sculpt makore - makore, kushandisa mheni - zvemagetsi zvinoerera enliven navo, uye shuramurove tora uye zvakaitika kero. Ichi chomutsa rungano - uye mwana anopiwa mhinduro kumubvunzo yakadaro kunzwisisa!

Uye chii kuna nembudzana kana kubvunza, chii chakaitika kune midsection wake muvakidzani, Tete Zina, uye nei pakarepo pashure iye akazviratidza bhokisi mwana? Uye nei izvozvo Akabvisa "amburenzi" kana vana chete kungoita kuti makore, uye ipapo kuuya shuramurove? Tinotofanira nhema zvakare ...

Chokwadi, zvakaoma kuwana mashoko akakodzera kuti kukurukura zvakajeka kutsanangurira mwana wako sei kuti vana, mune zvose zvayo mashoko. Kunyange rakapa chaiyo mugove, apo vabereki vanodzidziswa sei nyore uye zvinobudirira kunogona kuratidza mwana uyu "vanotyisa" chakavanzika. Kana mwana iduku kwazvo, zviri nyore zvakakwana kutaura kuti zvishoma kukura amai vake padumbu. Zvino vanachiremba ake pachipatara kuti uye kupa vabereki vanofara.

Asi nokufamba kwenguva, hazvina chokwadi kuti vana mubvunzo inotevera unomuka: sei mwana asvika amai padumbu? Ndipo apo unofanira kutsanangura kuti kuzvarwa kwomwana kutora chikamu vabereki vose. Vazhinji vachashamiswa, nekuti kunyange haagoni kufungidzira mashoko chii kuudza mwanakomana wake kana mwanasikana kuti vabereki vaite usiku!

Guide vabereki anopa tsanangudzo iyi. Baba naAmai akanyatsojeka aifarira mumwe, saka kazhinji kutsvoda uye kumbundira. Pashure pezvose, iwe, mbudzana, kakawanda kacho rikazvisundira pamusoro amai kana papule, navanasekuru, nokuti iwe uri kunyanya saivo, zvakarurama? Asi kuvambundira vana vakadaro havagoni kuwana.

Mwana anogona kuonekwa chete kana vanhu vakuru havasi chete kudanana, asi kusarudza kuti vanoda zvishoma mwana muduku. Ipapo vakatanga kugamuchira zvishoma zvakasiyana, sezvinoita vana kuita. Pashure paizvozvo, mukadzi ari mudumbu uye pane duku shoma murume. Zvishoma nezvishoma inokura ipapo, udye chii amai anodya, anofema naye. Uye ipapo iye otanga kunyange kufamba mukati maro, achigogodza makumbo uye maoko! Nokuti kare kurarama!

Children pasi 6 makore mhinduro yomubvunzo, sei vana kazhinji zvakakwana. Asi kana mubvunzo anobvunza zvakawanda mukuru, izvo Somuenzaniso, une vazhinji 10 makore, tsananguro kungava uwane. Atopiwa tsanangura kuti tete mukati pane nzvimbo unokosha akatakura mwana, uye zvinoita sokuti zai iri - zvakafanana zheltochek mune mazai huku.

Uye sekuru vake mukati squirrels. Kana puroteni riri mukati tete vangu merges pamwe zai mondo, muchangosangana anotora nzvimbo, kureva kuti chidzoke rutsva shoma munhu. tsanangudzo iyi ainyanya kudiwa vakomana pavakanga kutanga kufarira mubvunzo wokuti nei vanhu Vanhurume nevanhukadzi siyana dzinosiyana munzvimbo sikarudzi, uye basa iri yokusununguka vari inogarwa nevanhu.

Ichi tsananguro kunyanya kukosha asi nokuti mukomana zvinokosha kudzivirira dzavo nhengo dzakavandika. Uye kuti ndiyo tsananguro basa yemukomana muupenyu hwake ramangwana vachakwanisa kupa zvinovakurudzira pokuita aine utano hwakanaka mune muduku uye vakwegura zera.