Childfree - kuti. Childfree muna Russian

A Social Fani kuti yava nyaya ino, riri kuwedzera Russia uye dzimwe Kishi nyika kubva mukupera 90 wacho - mangwanani 2000 wacho. It ane yakavhenganiswa tinyatsonzwisisa pakati vanhu kujairana uhwu. Muzviitiko zvakawanda dzinopikisana uye dzimwe nguva rinooneka kunaka maonero ukama, sezvo zvinowanzoitwa, kushaya ruzivo. Tiri kutaura pfungwa "childfree" pamusoro. Ndiko, kana uye sei kuti vaungane, chii zvinangwa zviri pasocial sangano? Uye, Chikurukuru, sei zvinokanganisawo vamwe vanhu? Munyaya ino, tichakurukura mibvunzo yose iyi uye kuti debunk ngano.

History zviitiko

Childfree ( "childfree") kwezvatakaitirwa Russian "vakasununguka vana." Izvi zviri kuitika rakatanga muna 1970 muUnited States munguva uremu nemuenzaniso kodzero, rusununguko uye kuenzana. Saka akanga akasika National Organization for Non-Vabereki (NGAVASAITIRWA), izvo akamira kwakatangira vechikamu vaviri rainge rakabudirira revakadzi raive kufamba, Ellen Peck uye Shirli Radl. Kureva sangano aiunza kuchinja nzanga vafunga kuti mukadzi ane kodzero vana, kana musingadi kuti.

Mashoko aya pave neshanduko chinokosha munzvimbo pfungwa, nekuti kusvikira zvino yakanga vaidavira kuti vanoziva kurambwa kuberekana zvinoreva kuva mumuviri kana mupfungwa zvirwere ehupfumi. A kwakasimba kuti vatsigiri maviri anopa chivimbo uye nevamwe vakadzi vanofunga zvakafanana, asi haana kuda kutaura zvinonzwika. NGAVASAITIRWA sangano nokukurumidza akava akakurumbira, uye muna 1980 akanga tinoshandurirwa kufamba childfree. Asi kana kuUnited States vateveri vana mararamiro kazhinji vaiita basa nevamwe uye kuita zvematongerwo enyika, nzvimbo post-Soviet chinhu evanhu sangano rine chimiro mukirabhu yacho zvido.

Mibvunzo inowanzobvunzwa

Pavanhu vari havazvioni kuti chiitiko ichi uye haana shamwari dzakadaro, pane kusanzwisisana zhinji uye kunyange ngano pamusoro childfree.

"Chii navo? Ungaita sei asingadi kuva mwana mumwechete? "

Zvinofanira akayeuka kuti kuberekana hakusi mutoro, uye kusada kuita hazvina munguva munhu zvakaipa nzira. Mukupesana, inoti nezvokutendeseka pakuzvichengetedza uye basa ramangwana. Vana vamire kuna, kana uine chido uye anokwanisa kumutsa zvishoma murume.

"Uyu kurambwa nemaune mubereki, zvinoreva childfree kuvenga vana?"

Kwete. Vakawanda ukama jaya kuchizvarwa nedzevakuru izvi anoda kubva zvakanaka-kusvikira kwazvakarerekera hanya. Vazhinji nokuzvidira nemwana vanhu vanofara kupedza nguva vazukuru vangu uye vana vevanun'una, vana neshamwari uye zvichingodaro. D. dzakawanda diehard childfree kubudirira kuziva mukana kwavo mumunda kudzidzisa. Mumwe chete kucherechedza kuti "mwana akasununguka" riri chinonyanyisa chaizvo basa kuedza kumanikidza mararamiro.

"Childfree Chayldheyt uye - chii? Chete kana akasiyana? "

Nokuvhiringidza izvi zvakasiyana chaizvo mananara, vanhu vauye yakakanganiswa mhedziso kuti yokuzvidira childlessness - iri mugumisiro yokupisa mukupesana kuchizvarwa chevechiduku. Nepo "childfree" rinoreva "vana vakasununguka", "chayldheyt" rinoshandurwa se "detonenavistniki". Kwete kuziva uye kushandisa-Anglicisms mashoko, kunzwisisa sei izvi zviviri mananara vari kure nomumwe. The boka rokutanga vanhu vakasununguka nevamwe vana, asi havadi kuti avo. Boka rechipiri riri kusangana vanoramba kunzwa kurutivi shoma vanhu kuti anogona kuitika kunyange utsinye. Zvinoshamisa, panguva iyoyowo chinosuruvarisa kuti vavengi vana hazvo mwana. Zviitiko mupfungwa kana mumuviri chisimba mumhuri kazhinji nokuti kuti mubereki nezvikonzero zvakasiyana-siyana, kuratidza pacharo sezvo chayldheyter.

Maererano vanachiremba

Pakati upenyu nyanzvi hwevanhu rwomumwoyo havana pfungwa yakajeka pamusoro yokuzvidira childlessness. Kuedza kunzwisisa zvazvinoreva childfree somunhu socio-mupfungwa chaiyo, anoita vanachiremba vari zvinotevera zvinoita zvikonzero chisarudzo ichi:

1. Negative zvakaitika yavo vaduku.

Maererano pfungwa iyi, chikonzero asapinda childfree ndiko kutya (vanoziva kana Isimba rakadini rinogona kubudiswa) kudzokorora muenzaniso mubereki, umo vanhu vakatambura, pachake mwana.

2. udyire uye umbishi.

Muchiitiko chino, nokuzvidira childlessness anosarudza murume, uyo vanoti "mwana husingaperi". Saka chairwo pfungwa achinyanya zvavanoda, uyewo hedonism - chido kuwana muupenyu. Izvo zvinoreva kuti vanhu ava havana kunzwa simba kuratidza kuti ane basa rakakura, vane hanya, kushivirira uye kuzvitsaurira zvakakodzera navanaamai yemberi uye madzibaba.

3. chokuzvizadzika dzakakwirira nenyanzvi.

boka iri vanosanganisira childfree, mhando yebasa iyo chokuita yebhizimisi, unyanzvi, mitambo, sainzi, uye dzimwe nzvimbo kuti zvinoda kuzvipira guru. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, asi munhu haana nguva kana mukana, kana kunyange kungova kukosha kuita pakubereka zvokurera vana. Pashure pezvose, chokubatanidza kufarira basa rako uye dzidzo yakakwana vana - basa kwakaoma zvisingaiti, kunyanya Russian chokwadi.

4. aomerwa ari kuchinja mauto munzanga.

Chimwe nemaonero pamusoro Chiitiko pamusoro childfree ari sechinhu mhinduro hurumende policies, achirangarira kutakura yakawanda sezvingabvira uye kugadzirisa wevanotungamirira ezvinhu. Zvechokwadi, mune iyi, pakusarudza childlessness riri subconscious - maitiro kuti kunyanyisa hwepfungwa mupfungwa kumanikidzwa.

Uye ikozvino kutarisa zvikonzero asapinda nokuzvidira nemwana, yakavakirwa chechikadzi kupesana.

Vakadzi nevarume childfree

Chii chiri ichi evanhu kufamba, izvo chinokwezva aroorane?

Ongororo dzinoratidza kuti vakadzi kazhinji zvichikonzerwa chido kuzadzikwa nenyanzvi uye nenguva yakawanda kuzvida kukura. Chokwadi, muduku maoko, zvakaoma kuvaka basa, uye kunyange panguva pfupi maternity ngavabude, unogona kurasikirwa nebasa rako hope. Uyezve, dzidzo vevana, kunyanya mumakore okutanga oupenyu kunosiya shoma nguva uye mukana kufamba, kudzidza uye kuverenga mabhuku.

Kana varume, vari kusarudza wokugadzira childfree upenyu, kazhinji kutungamirirwa pakatarisana chikonzero pane vakadzi. Mukuru nharo nokuti munhurume rinova kusada kuita mutoro zvemari kuti kunotozongoita chinovapo pakuzvarwa uye zvokurera mwana ramangwana. Men-childfree vanoda kuva rusununguko uye vashoma sungiro, uye mikana dzimwe nguva simbe kana kufamba asina akasungwa kudikanwa zvokudya mhuri.

Chimwe nharo nokuzvidira nemwana vanhu vose varume navakadzi vari kunzi: kusununguka youtano, kuderera ukama mukati vakaroorana uye dzapedyo upenyu kutyora vabereki azvarwa.

Kazhinji, akakodzera kumirisana chero chayldfri ishamwari pamwe chete chaiwo zvavanodavira. Muchiitiko chino, zvichaita kukwanisa kuvaka ukama zvikuru inowirirana, isina mubvunzo kana kusavimbana kudaro chinokosha nyaya sezvo yokusununguka.

Free nevakakurumbira

Kwokuzvidira renunciation dzidzo yevana - kutanga zvikuru kwose kwose, asi vakawanda vanhu ava azvidavirire muzana 1-2 chete muvanhu. Izvi zvinosanganisira uye ndazvitsaurira upenyu maitiro childfree vakakurumbira. Pakati pavo, mumwe wokutanga kommunistok uye varwi dzekodzero Clara Zetkin, firimu uye Serial mutambi Renee Zellweger, Cameron Diaz, Jennifer Aniston, Kim Ketroll uye Eva Mendes, TV inoshanyirwa Opra Uinfri uye Ksenia Sobchak, muimbi Puyakacha Minoug.

Nechivimbo mbereko varume, yakakurumbira zvikuru mutambi Dzhordzh Kluni uye Kristofer Uoken.

Kutaurirana kuti childfree

Meet vanhu vanosarudza yokuzvidira childlessness, munguva yedu yepamusoro nguva musiwa siyana paIndaneti. Kune forum dzakakodzera, dhayari mapoka munharaunda, paruzhinji uye zvichingodaro. D. On izvi padandemutande zvinhu anogona kutaura vezera, bvunza mibvunzo, durura moyo wake uye akawana mumwe chete nemaonero akadaro.

Forums

A dzakakurumbira chaizvo Forum riri "Planet childfree". Pano, vanozvishandisa vanonzi rakakamurwa kwazvo, kurukura nyaya dzoupenyu, majee pamusoro nyaya dzakasiyana-siyana (kwete chete chokuita childfree uzivi), kugamuchira uye kupa anobatsira mashoko - iri pfupi, wakasununguka. Forum "Planet childfree" riri imwe pfungwa imwe nzira yokubudisa kune vanhu vari muupenyu hwezuva nezuva hakuna yakapoteredzwa dzakafanana panyaya dzizoberekana, asi "vavengi Pfungwa", achiratidza asinganyatsonzwisisi kana kusava nokungwarira pakukurukurirana.

mumagariro Networking

Chaizvo uye kugutsikana childfree nzanga iri mu "Live Journal". Panguva iyoyo, yaiva yokutanga muna RuNet chikuva kuti kutaurirana pakati vanhu vanosarudza yokuzvidira childlessness.

The kupfuura mukurumbira Russian pasocial network anewo ruzhinji peji uye boka dzidziso childfree. Chimwe chezvinhu mukurumbira anonzi "Childfree mu Russian." "VKontakte" inobatanidza vanoshandisa vachibva kumaguta siyana uye nyika, zvichiita kuti kutaura pamusoro mamiriro misoro munguva chaiyo. Kuwedzera mapoka, pane Public kusazivikanwa mafungiro akadai "akanzwa childfree". Chimwe Chiitiko chinoshamisa anganzi nzanga iri network, nezvezvandaifanira akaroorwa / vakaroora kana mu-refu ukama vanhu. Pano unogona kukurukura zvinhu zvoupenyu hwemhuri pasina vana, uye kumbira mazano mune nyaya kunzwisisa aine naye panyaya iyi. Kazhinji, akasiyana-siyana evanhu mukukurukurirana - ndizvo zvavari kuita bhendi nhengo "Childfree mu Russian" uye dzimwe nzanga akafanana paIndaneti.

pachinzvimbo mhedziso

"Free Child" - saka regai kudiwa nevana uye noune akasarudzwa childlessness. Hazvibviri vanouti munhu subculture childfree, sezvo boka haana anokosha mitemo kana nevamwe kwokunze zvinhu. Uye munzanga kufamba (kunyanya Kishi munyika), vanogona kunzi munhu tatamuka, nekuti havazivi kuisa mberi masirogani uye usaedza kuchinja nyika. Vakawanda tinogona kutaura kuti childfree - mararamiro, iyo inogona kunzwisiswa kana kwete, ruremekedzo tinenge tichishandira zviripo, kana chete nokuti vanhu ava kutendeseka sarudzo yavo uye regai kuisa vamwe.