Ndezvipi zvitsva uye chii chinoshamisa?

Zvinoratidzika kuti zvinofadza kune mumwe nomumwe wedu kuzviziva isu pachedu. Muvanhu vazhinji, vanhu vakawanda vanoda kutaura pamusoro pavo. Nenzira yakanaka, zvidzidzo zvidzidzo zvezvikoro zvinotanga kuongorora nezvepfungwa, kuongororwa, nzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzekuongorora zvidzidzo. Chikonzero nei ichidiwa chiri pachena. Kunzwisisa maitiro ehutano, unhu, simba uye utera hwomudzidzi kana mushandi, mudzidzisi kana mudzidzisi achakwanisa kumupa mabasa aachaita zvakanakisisa, kuratidza chiremerera chake. Uye uchizviziva iwe, munhu haafaniri kutora chimwe chinhu chiri mutorwa kwaari, haazoputsa hupenyu hwake kuti afadze shamwari kana mhuri. Achava nani kukwanisa kukurira matambudziko uye matambudziko kana achiona kuti anotevera kubva kune unhu hwake. Imwe yemiganhu inokosha zvikuru, maererano nekuti vanhu vanogona kuwirirana mumapoka maviri, vane ukama nenyika yekunze nevamwe.

Chii chinonzi introverts uye extroverts? Nyanzvi dzepfungwa (uye vasati vazivi vezvechirwere, vezvechirwere chepfungwa, vanyori) vave nenguva vakacherechedza kuti vamwe vanhu vakasununguka pakukurukurirana, sekunge vari mumakambani ane ruzha, chinangwa chekucherechedza. Vari kutaura uye havadi kuvanza manzwiro avo nemafungiro avo. It's extroverts. Asi pane vamwewo: vane pfungwa dzakapfigwa, vasingafambidzani. Ndezvipi zvinyorwa mukunzwisisa kwepfungwa dzepfungwa? Ava ndivo vanhu avo vanonyanya kufunga nezvehupenyu hwavo hwemukati, kusarudza kusurukirwa nekufunga kune kukurukurirana kukuru. Hazvisi zvachose zvakakosha kuti vachave vachishungurudzika uye vachishungurudzika. Vanongotaura chete, sekutonga, kana bedzi vane chimwe chinhu chavanotaura, uye pane chimwe chinhu chokugovera, kwete nekuda kwekutora pachako.

Chii chinonzi introverts? Vanosarudza sei kushanda? Ava ndivo vanhu vanoda nzvimbo yavo yekugara, havadi kuparadza simba nokuti hapana kune vakawanda. Sezvo mutemo, vanoshanda nekugadzirisa matambudziko vari voga, vachizvimiririra, vasingabhadhari zvakanyanya maonero uye kuongororwa kwevamwe. Ivo vakanyanyisa masayendisiti, freelancers, programmers. Zvisinei, hapana kuwirirana pakati pavo, tinokwanisa kubvisa mhando dzakadai dzevakuvadza sevanonzwa uye vanoziva. Kana iyo yekare inotarisa pamatanho chaiwo, zvokwadi, zviitiko, zvekupedzisira zvinoda kufanana, pane zvinyorwa pfungwa uye pfungwa. Sensory introlet is an accountant, scientist, kunyatsotarisa mashoko uye tsanangudzo, kururamisira rudo uye kuronga. Munhu akadaro anoverenga, sekutonga, iye oga, iye ane vashoma shamwari, asi kana vakadaro, ndeyechokwadi, nguva refu yakaedzwa sataniketi.

Uye chii chinonzi introverts intuitive? Vanorota, vazivi, vanyori ... Vanhu avo nyika yepanyika inonyanya kukosha , kubata nemifananidzo uye pfungwa. Ivo vanonyanya kukwanisa vanhu, nyanzvi, vanofunga. Vanoda kutarisa mune ramangwana uye vanoongorora zvakapfuura. Zvakanyanya kuoma kwavari kuti vataure zvakajeka uye kujekesa kwemashoko, asi ivo vanopa zvakakwana pfungwa uye pfungwa.

Chimwe nechimwe chezvizvi zviviri chinogona kugoverwa muviri pamusana pechinhu chinotaridzika chemukati yavo yepakati-pfungwa (inonzwisisika introvert) kana mamiriro ekufunga, hukama, manzwiro (maitiro). Chimwe chikwata chakanyatsorongeka chinobudiswa nezvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana zvevanhu.

Chimwe chinyorwa chinonyaradza chinonzwa sega nemasikirwo, mabhuku, mimhanzi, pfungwa dzake uye pfungwa dzekusika. Haafaniri kutarisirwa nguva dzose uye kushamwaridzana, uye kutaura kwake pane matairi, kupfuura zvinofadza. Zvakakosha kumunhu akadaro nzvimbo yake chaiyo, umo pasina munhu angapindira, uye mukana wekusika.