Nokusatsaudzira sezvo unhu Unhu

The stringency yokuzvininipisa wacho - pfungwa kuongorora kunyatsotevera unhu uye kururama nezviito anoitwa pasina kutsauka kubva mharidzo.

Nokusatsaudzira - mumwe resonance moyo mumwe munhu. Nokusatsaudzira yakaganhurirwa rudo. Kamwe munhu kuputsa mwero, kunzwisisa miganhu kurangwa, uye ayo zviito uchanzi zvakasiyana - Rigidity, hasha kana utsinye. Love - limiter nehasha. Munhu rudo haagoni kuva chandagwinyira, nehasha, uye kunyange zvakawanda utsinye. Kodzero kuti kuomesa kuti ndakawana. I akambobvunza mwanakomana-gore nomwe: - Unoziva sei I kukuranga? - Hongu, - akati. - Pamwe handifaniri ndakaita? - I akabvunza. - Kwete, - Iye akati, - munoita zvakanaka. Uri kundiranga nokuti munoda kuti handina kumboita pachako kana vamwe zvakaipa. Mwana aiziva kuti Baba nakazanie- kuratidzwa rudo.

Rinopa kodzero kwokuomerwa Kudanana. Kana tikatarisa vakwanise austerity, kwete chete kune dzidzo yevana, munhu anogona kuva huru kana achida vamwe vanhu kuti runako uye mufaro. Zvisinei, izvi hazvina kukwana. Ini misspoke tichiregeredza Kudanana. Haugoni kuranga hanya nemi vanhu. Somuenzaniso, ukuwo mutevedzeri harizonzwi kuremekedzwa uye tsitsi kune musoro, apo waro nzvimbo hakusi zvinokosha kwavari, uye kubviswa kuti hachifadzi, marudzi ose kurangwa kuonekwa kusvikira achaita navo kwete nehasha, asi somunhu muchivadzvinyirira uye hasha. Chirango pasina yakawiriranwa tsitsi uye kurerutsa simba musoro zvinoratidza kuti ari kunzwisisa murombo zviri kuitika. Somuenzaniso, ari AV Suvorov aiva neukama nerimwe varwi zviuru makumi mashanu. Akasvika varwi uye akabvunza, "Zvakanaka, mwanakomana akapora?" Kana: "Pauro, chii vanonyora kubva Ryazan" Varwi vakada mutungamiri wavo, uye kwokuomerwa vakanzwisisa chete sezvo chido nazvo kumba vapenyu uye kukuvara. Panguva nehasha hakufaniri munhu, asi zviito zvake.

Rudo nekuomarara vanoonekwa panguva. Kazhinji vabereki vanoda vana kuzvikudza, nakidzwa nazvo. chido choudyire kugamuchira mufaro kubva mwana kumira vabereki nehasha. Vanotya kumuudza shoko mhiri, vanotambura sava nehunhu hwake zvose chiito. Kana munhu anokuda zvechokwadi mwoyo wake anofanira kuratidza simba uye kusingazununguki nehasha hama kuti chinhu rudo, anoita pachena kutaura naye zvose chokwadi. Ndiwo nehasha chaiyo, akandipa norudo. Nemusoro muranda rudo, kungava kwazvo navo. chikwata chake kuranga simbi chaiyo nokuti anoda, anoonga vanhu uye kuratidza navo mukanyatsochengeta, nokuti kutya kuti havangagamuchiri vakaita pachake matambudziko, kwete kukanganiswa mukurumbira wake uye haana kurasa kodzero kushanda chikwata ichi.

Pane imwe nguva dzose chinoshamisa: vazhinji mumwe anoda, asi zvikuru chiri chinhu rudo. Nei izvi zvichiitika? Nekuti kwokuomerwa kuda chinhu rudo ichokwadi kuti rudo uye kukoshesa kwake kupfuura chinhu chokutya kurasikirwa nayo. Somuenzaniso, zvikuru baba anoda mwanakomana wake yakasimba anoreva izvozvo. Achida mwanakomana zvakanaka, aitya kuti arege dzakaderera pasi pokudzora dzomumusha. Mudiwa, achiratidza zvakaoma, akanyatisa rudo ane kusimba kukanganisa mumwe munhu, izvo zvinozoita anomuda. Asi kuti vane simba austerity, zvakafanira kuti rudo zvechokwadi.

Kusiyana zvaidiwa, iyo inoratidza pachayo kana basa nyika, nekuomarara padzakacherechedza mugumisiro pa mabiko. Kana zvinodiwa yabvunzwa "chii kuita" kuti nehasha kuziva mubvunzo "sei". Somuenzaniso, kuomerera rinoti: "Unofanira kuzvipira munhu Quarterly mushumo rechi15 romwedzi zvichitevera kushuma chimwe. Senzira nemishumo vanofanira zvinotevera chimiro ... Musingavayemedzi executors ... "inopfuura zuva regumi, uye hakuna ripoti, pasi kuti kwapera mazuva gumi. Kana maziso ako - saka hazvisi nehasha. Kana vakatsiura, iye vaityisidzira kushayisa premiums kuputswa pachiyero uye akakumbira kuti remake - saka akaratidza nehasha.

Kusiyana Rigidity, nehasha, sezvatakagamuchira akati, akazara norudo uye kuremekedza vanhu, zvinonyanya nyoro uye kudziya. Nekuomarara angatova kunakidza kana musoro mu enyambo chimiro kunoita "pakurohwa" muranda zvavakambokanganisirana basa. Iye kashoma anouya kurangwa chaiko, mishoma nezviyeuchidzo uye vanotyisidzirwa. At kuomarara humorless hunhu, zvinosetsa, risingabereki kuvhenekera. The Rigidity pamusoro inotonhorera, calm. Kutyisidzira kwake anofanira kubatwa nokungwarira, nekuti kwavari, sezvinoita ushe, zvinofanira kuva Implementation. Nechinangwa Rigidity edzidzo anogona simba chaiko kwakaitwa. The neukukutu yevanhu vaimhanya, uye nokuda nehasha kunhare.

Nokusatsaudzira mhuri inofanira specialized. Somuenzaniso, mumwe mukadzi, kana musingadi kuti vakure mwanakomana amai vake, simba kwake, spineless uye isingafadzi murume haafaniri kurera mwanakomana wake pachake. Ndicho anozviita yababa vake. Nokusatsaudzira pamusoro mukomana kunoratidza zvingangoita zvikanganiso. Mukomana vanofanira kudzidza kukunda matambudziko, kuti vave vakagadzirira kunovhenekwa. Zvinokosha kangani ukapfugama, asi sei uchimuka. Murume akavaka kunzwisisa kuti mukomana aida unyanzvi kuti akunde zvipingamupinyi muupenyu. Kufanana are, iye sezviri haadi zvakabaya upenyu, pamwe chete simba shure ayo yepakutanga nomufaro, pakati nepakati mamiriro. Amai haagoni kunzwisisa anonyengera oupenyu sayenzi otanga akapamba mwanakomana wake, kuti zviri nyore kuti kumubvunza baba bvunzo. tsitsi akadaro kuchiita kukuvadza mwana uye anoparadza dambudziko rake. Women zvaari haagoni zvakadzikama kutarisa sezvo mwanakomana chinoenda kuburikidza nokuda Implementation mabasa vatakanzi vake baba. Saka, amai vanofanira kugara kure kubva dzidzo mwanakomana wake. Kuti rudo uye tora nokuuchengeta - ndapota, asi kudzidzisa mwanakomana wake - baba vake ari wenyika basa. Kupa mwanakomana wake nomukana wokudzidza zvidzidzo zvoupenyu, saka baba anopa pfungwa vake mukana vakura uye "vashoma tsandanyama." Kune anecdote: Amai vakasarudza kubva zvino kuchengeta mwanakomana wake zvakaoma.
- Muri kuenda kupi? - okubvunza. - kupi Ndinoda. - Zvino kana iwe tichadzoka? - Kana kunofadza. - Zvakanaka, tarisai, kwete kweminiti kwapera.

Kana baba kukuvadzisa mwanakomana wake, ipapo vakapamba wake, zvino isina nehasha iri ukama nomurume wake. Uye pano pane nezvechimwe chinhu chinonakidza. Iva chokwadi nomurume wake - ndiko kumuda. Kana mukadzi anoda murume wake, iye unogona kuva kuomesa naye, uye ipapo murume ari yakaoma nemwanakomana wake. Nokusatsaudzira rudo haisi mupenyu. Pasina rudo kunogona chete "kuwana" vana uye omurume zviduku cavils uye hapana asi kurambwa haagamuchiri mhinduro. The musikana zvechokwadi anouya naamai. Nokusatsaudzira musikana kuratidzwa muitiro kudzidzisa maitiro ayo yakakodzera, vachitsanangura zvose subtleties uye nuances ose interpersonal ukama.

In nokusatsaudzira ane pakavanda musuo waro. Kana kuziva kwainobva nhema kiyi, zvinova pachena kuti murume wake akanga kuomesa nomudzimai wake panze, uye akati kwaari - nechomukati. Internal nehasha zvikuru yokumwe. Saka, zviri kukodzera kune isina mhinduro mubvunzo, "Ndiani Ndicho Boss?" - mukadzi anoramba murume wake ari "zvakasimba" yokungoita. Uye simba raro nehasha kunobva parudo. Apo mudzimai wangu anoda murume wake, iye amubvisa munhukadzi basa. Vanofanira kuita unzenza, vasinganyari, muchidimbu, hachisi chokwadi, mudzimai pakarepo kufukura ruvengo rwacho chiito chake uye zvinoratidza kuti mumhuri yedu, izvi hazvishande. Mukadzi anoita ezvinhu akadaro chaizvo kusarudza, noushingi uye ichiramba. Men vanosarudza kudzivisa mamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, rakaoma-kurova navo, nekuti kutya kuona mudzimai wangu ichocho. Saka mudzimai aigona nyore kuva kuomesa ari kurerwa wake, chero kuti iye ane simba rudo kwaari.