"Mashiripiti" mashoko kuti kunyange kuponesa netsa kukurukura

Mumwe nomumwe wedu kamwe akanzwa kusagadzikana munguva kukurukura, uye zvechokwadi haadi kudzoka chete mamiriro ezvinhu. Sezvo mumwe nemitemo kwakarungwa kwounyanzvi, hapana mamiriro ezvinhu kuti hakugadziriswi tichibatsirwa kusarudzwa zvakanaka mashoko.

Heano vabatsiri vakatendeka nomwe dzakagadzirira chero nguva kuzoponesa netsa kukurukurirana.

compliments

More nyore kuti tiyeuke zita waunoziva itsva, nekuti vazhinji pfungwa dzedu dzirambe dzichifunga zvinhu isu tichati inotevera. Mumwe inonyatsobudirira Wandinyengedzerei kuyeuka zita panguva imwe chete, kuti vadzivise kunyara uye nzvimbo interlocutor pachake - kumurumbidza, apo kudzokorora zita idzva. Kana ukati, Somuenzaniso, "Alice, I here kufanana mapfekero ako, zvomenemene here," zvino zita acharangarirwa nokukurumidza uye itsva shamwari zvaizova zvakanaka kunzwa anokutenda. Achishandisa akanyatsofungwa uye unobtrusive compliments kuchakubatsira kwete chete kuyeuka vamwe, asi kuti kuyeukwa. Uyezve, pashure zvakanaka mashoko kero yake munhu anova anyanye kukurukurirana, izvo zvichakubatsira vasanyadziswa.

mibvunzo

Ongororo dzinoratidza kuti isu kuyera kubudirira kukurukura itsva vanhu hunobva hachisisiri chii isu akati, kwete mutauri. Uyezve, vanhu vakawanda zvikuru kunonakidza, kutaura pachavo, zvavanofarira, zvakaitika uye nyaya dzoupenyu pane kudya, kunwa uye kunyange mumhanzi. Data izvi kunogona kutibatsira kusika hurukuro akakwana yokutanga interlocutors ake. Sei? Kubvunza kufunga mibvunzo - avo kuti urege inoda shamwari zvemunhu, asi panguva imwe chete zvinonyatsoratidza kufarira kwedu unhu hwavo. Unogona kubvunza pamusoro kufarira makirasi kunze basa, kufarira nzvimbo muguta. Dzivisa mibvunzo inogona kupa mhinduro monosyllabic, uyewo mibvunzo pamusoro basa, upenyu pachake uye zvematongerwo enyika. Chimwe chinobatsira kuita ndiwo mubvunzo kwazvo kutarisirwa chiitiko wegore somuenzaniso.

Nezvirahwe uye otgadki

Ramba inonakidza kukurukura vamwe nyaya hazvibviri. Zvakakosha kuziva interlocutor yake, kuti tiswedere kwaari kuva "mutambo." Vachimuziva vanofanira kutora chimiro tenesi machisi, uye kwete bvunzurudzo pamwe waunotarisira foromani. Nzira huru enliven kukurukura chinhu chakavanzika. Mushure togokak takadzidza pamusoro zvinhu, kufarira nzvimbo, uye zvichingodaro, unogona kuti, "Unozivei nezuro ndakaona rwaunofarira Datenroku?". Kana, "Regai Unozivei firimu iri novelties uchida!" Nzira iyi ishamwari zvikuru mupfungwa kukurukurirana.

mudhu

Hapana chinhu chiri nani kupfuura kubudirira kuedza afadze shamwari yake. Kana bhuku haafariri zvikuru kubudirira kukurukura, kumbira kuti kuongorora zuva rako uri gumi pfungwa akamboona. Izvi zvichaita kumanikidza nemudiwa kufunga uye vanogona kutsanangura mutengo wayo. Kamwe uine mhinduro, kunyange kana chiri yakasimba maviri, bvunza tsime, zvaungaita kuti vanofungidzira kuti kanenge anosvika mashanu. Ungangove, haufaniri kuita chinhu, asi chiratidzo kunoongwa.

tsitsi

Chinhu chakavanzika, uye zvichida chombo inonyatsobudirira ari zvombo upi mutauri, kunyange ruzivo. Vanhu vanoda tsitsi, kunyange kana ivo kuzviramba. Tiri kufara kuziva kuti mumwe munhu anofunga basa redu rakaoma, uye kurera vana vaviri uye imbwa zvose - runonyengera bhizimisi. Simple mashoko "zvimwe zvakaoma chaizvo" achaita kuti interlocutor vanonzwa zvikuru takasununguka.

Tips

Kuvambwa baba United States uye akakurumbira muvambi Benjamin Franklin akanyora kuti munhu kamwe kwakatibatsira kuva akagadzirira kuzviita zvakare vane mufaro pane uyo akatibatsira. Mashoko ake ari kwakaitika ongororo dzakawanda. Kana iwe kumbira kubatsirwa pakugadzirisa dambudziko, mazano, nyanzvi kana pfungwa dzevanhu pamusoro waunoziva idzva, ndiye kazhinji kunzwa tsitsi pamusoro penyu. Zvichida ichi chinoitika nokuti mumwe nomumwe wedu tinoda kunzwa anobatsira uye ruzivo munhu. Naizvozvo, kana uchida kuita zvakanaka mupfungwa interlocutor, kumbira mazano. Uye Chikurukuru, vazive kuti uchawana maonero ake anonakidza uye anobatsira.

kupera

Mumwe abudirire kukurukura kunoda ichiyevedza uye varemekedze kupera. Usamborega nhaurirano kusvika pasina uye vanoshamba kupinda kuti vachinyara kutotanga apo kana divi anoziva zvokuita - kuramba kana kurega. Kana paichaguma, akabwugumisa Washington kushandisa mashoko okuti "Ini handidi monopolize mufunge." Musakanganwa kuti nditende interlocutor nokuda kwazvo nguva yaaipedza uye kuvayeuchidza kuti wanga ndafara kukuziva.

Kana uri kupati, unogona adimburira nemashoko okuti "Ndakafara Chat, asi ndine kutaura shamwari yangu asati asiya." Usakanganwa pamusoro kubudirira runhare mutemo; zviri nani kuti kukanganisa kwaari yepamusoro, pane ugozvipa Vaiisa mugomba.