Kutaura zvakanaka; Tips

Tose vanoedza kuita vamwe vanhu vakanaka, asi vose anoziva kuti tinyatsonzwisisa munhu inoumbwa zvakamisa hurongwa mana? Izvi zvinosanganisira chitarisiko, zviito, uye, chokwadi, matauriro edu. Muchiitiko chino, chii chinokosha hazvisi chete zvatinotaura asi sei isu kuzviita.

Dzidza kutaura zvakanaka

Zvirokwazvo iwe vanoziva mumwe munhu ane dambudziko kukurukurirana. Chokwadi kuti unofanira kuziva kwete chete sei kutaura nechivimbo, asiwo nounyanzvi kuratidza maonero avo.

Ngatitaurei edza kutaura pamusoro huru mukutaura kwedu, nekuti hapana munhu akadzidzisa sei kutaura, uye naizvozvo, vamwe kunenge vachava kubatsira chaizvo.

Chokutanga, tinofanira kuteerera mashoko. Unofanira kuverenga zvakawanda, nokuti dzimwe nguva isu chete havana mashoko, kuzoumba maonero avo. Kutaura kwedu kunogona kuva rurimi-akasungirwa, inogona kusangana vanonzi shoko-masora nezvimwe zvinetso.

Zvino zvinokosha Kuteerera kushushikana zvamunoita mashoko. To zvakanga nomazvo, zvinokosha kuziva kuti zvakarurama kureva mashoko. Panyaya iyi, duramazwi kuchabatsira mataurirwo emashoko, dzidza rakajairika mashoko, asi kana uri mubvunzo kuti asimbise nani atsive nezvinoitika fanano, kana kunyange kutadza.

Kakawanda mukutaura kwedu tinoda kushandisa mamwe mashoko kuti murege kutakura anokosha. Somuenzaniso: "Kazhinji, I akasaina mapepa nezvose," "Zvakanaka, ini akachiisa kunze uko, chii mhando murwi wemagazini mapepa". Chete kwevhiki mbiri okudzidziswa, uye kwako kutaura achava nezvakawanda "Cleaner" uye kuwana mabhuku runako.

Kufunga nezvokuti sei kutaura zvakanaka, hatifaniri kukanganwa pamusoro matauriro, hunobata zvinonyatsorehwa maonero chii chave akati. The goho riri nyore: unogona kunyora inzwi rako patepi uye ongorora izvozvo, unogona zvakabatana muitiro uyu, mamwe masoja, kuti zvavanofunga havadi pakukurukurirana kwenyu.

Dzimwe nguva tinoshandisa mukutaura kwedu zvakaoma kunzwisisa mashoko nevamwe. Rangarirai makore kukoreji, kana iwe zvechokwadi unogona kunzwisisa kungotaura purofesa, asi zvaiita kuti anotaura zvikuru inokwanisika. Chokwadi ndechokuti tose tinogona kutaura mutauro nyore, zvinonzwisisika kuti munhu wose nokusarudza mashoko. Edza kuramba kutaura kwako havana ane mashoko isinganzwisisiki kuti shamwari yako, uye ipapo zvose achawira munzvimbo.

Kana muchida kuziva kuti kutaura, unofanira kukanganwa zvachose pamusoro okutuka, akariposhera uye jargon. Pasina mubvunzo, shamwari yako vachanzwisisa zvakakwana kana ukati kwaari: "Zvakanga Soul Plane Party, zvikuru booze aiva Motion riri kutamba pasi!". Asi hazvisi zvakakodzera mune mweya iwoyo kuudza munhu mukuru pamusoro sei aiva manheru wenyu Svondo. Unofanira dzinobvisa matauriro ako uye kufunga zvaunotaura uye kunaani.

Munguva ichangopfuura, mukurumbira chaizvo pakati vanhu vanotaura mutauro wokumwe, raiva kushandisa pakutaura, mashoko vatorwa. Nokusanganisa mitauro kuti chinhu chakanaka haizoiti, hazvisi chete yakanyangara, asi hazvina pachena kune vamwe vanhu, kunyange kana ivo vanoziva mutauro iyo iwe kudya mashoko iwayo.

Zvichida uri zvishoma vanoshamisika, asi kuziva sei kutaura, unofanira kuziva sei kuteerera. Kunenge kuti uchava conversationalist wakanaka, kana iwe ramba zvinodzongonyedza anokumhan'arira wako urege kumupa kutaura pfungwa dzake maonero.

Muchiitiko chino, hazvina kuwana zvakare vanoshingaira kubvunza mibvunzo, zvikasadaro nhaurirano wenyu haazorambi vanoda kutaura, asi pachigadziko pokubvunzurudzwa chaiyo.

Zvakakodzera kuyeuka yendarama kutonga conversationalist zvakanaka: Rega apedza. Kugona kupa inzwi chaizvo. Panguva imwe cheteyo, kana chava chijana chako kutaura, iwe havadi "achipupuma furo" kuti aratidze kuti haana mhosva. Kukurukura haafaniri akafanana enyika gakava, apo munhu wose anoda kudzivirira pfungwa dzake maonero uye zviito zvavo. Unofanira kukwanisa kutsausa dzevakurukuri yako yakanaka nekungotaurawo.